I know i asked this three times today...but i want more opinions, and i've been getting VERY different answers. so yeah..
What's the difference? How do u know when u have one.?..which is better..? I'm in highschool if that means anything..
and can u help me determine if these ppl are 'true' or 'best' or close friends.
1.became close only recently, but we have SO much in common and i tell her EVERYTHING. ANd i turn to her in times of trouble. I never been to her house before though..and never met her parents(only cuz we live far and have protective parents). But I (and she too) have a sense of understanding for each other in which we tell each other things we do not tell ANYONE else and we are positive that we will still be close friends after highs school cuz we are likely to go to the same college.
2. We literally do EVERYTHING together. It's like one of those friendships where if we aren't together, ppl ask 'where is __'. Because me without her is like milk without cookies( u get the idea). I've only been to HER house SO many times that i lost count(mi casa es su casa and vice versa), and when there is a school activity, then it's like we will only go if the other one goes. And we have very common interests. However, when i am in terrible emotional pain, i do not tell her the whole story and sometimes i deny that there is anything even wrong with me at all ( i don't do this with #1 though).(the reason i do this is so i won't make her worry)
3. He is so close to me...let's just say he is #1 and 2 put together..we spend time together(but not TOO much like #2)..and i DO tell him EVERY SINGLE THING about me, even the dirtiest things lol.. and he is honest to the point where it needs to hurt. Also we make time to hangout as much as possible. ALso..i am myself around him more than around anyone else where i can laugh at myself if i do something stupid. It's like #2 where it's like if we're not next to each other, then it's like 'where's __?'
4. He is like a brother to me in a sense that he is protective and we occasionally tease each other. We even have special nicknames for each other. He is my favorite AIM buddy(only becuz we talk online more than in person)..and we have had many DEEP meaningful conversations and i tell him things i do not tell anyone else. We have been in MANY arguements(fighting only makes a friendship closer right?) to the point where we hurt each other emotionally and really badly. We are unlike in personality which may cause the arguing but we learn from each other this way. Even after the fightts we manage not to hate each other.=) However, we do not hangout much and we have different groups of friends and friendship is supposed to be two-way and i mostly initiate convos and hangouts.
Lol..sorry this was long..thx 4 your time.
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