Difficult Question Concerning Sibling Sexuality?

Question

I caught my 8 year old son and his sister "doing s*x". I asked where they learned the behavior and they responded, "TV". I seperated them and explained as clearly as I could that he behavior was inappropriate. I am afraid that he may have coherced her. Does anybody have any advice as to what I should do? I remember experimenting as a child, but I just thought that I did it because I was introduced to it. Specifically, how do I address this situation better with a male child? I know how females think, but I am at a loss with my son. I need some male opinions,too. Did you experiment with siblings growing up? Did you grow up "normal"? Please don't tell me that you acted out like my son has and then grew up to be a child molester or rapist...I think I'd commit my son to an institution. Seriously.

Answer 1

I've been waiting to see what others thought and notice there are still no answers.

I would be concerned not that my child is inherently evil but that perhaps he's been exposed to some form of abuse.  Hopefully not, but it would be worth a few sessions with a child psychologist.  I would talk to your pediatrician and get a referral.  

Hopefully it's nothing but often victims turn into abusers themselves.  

You're a good parent to be concerned and not turn a blind eye to what's happening in your home and have your daughters best interest at heart as well.

Good luck.