I'm almost nineteen years old. My boyfriend and I have spent the last year together and have been close for many years more. I really feel like he is my soul mate. I just found out this week I may be infertile now, and if I'm not now I most likely will be within the next few years to come. Basically my chances of having a baby get lower every year. Having a baby has been something I've looked forward to experiencing my whole life. It's something that's very special and important to me. When I told my boyfriend about this problem, it seemed to upset him and make him sad, although he tried not to act like it did.
I would like some advice.. should I suggest that if we stay together we have a baby as soon as we finish our next two years in college?
I want to give my future child as much of a perfect life as I can. I want to have a good job, a good marriage and a safe and sound home of my own with a backyard and a supportive family. I won't miraculously get all this in two years. However if I wait I may have no baby at all. Should I just deal with it? I don't know what to do. Adoption is just not the same to him. I feel the same.
I know it's early in my life but with the problem I have I need to think of this now. Helppp.
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