Difficult situation how should I ask him out??

Question

Okay so I have liked a guy for over 5 years, and he knows it and never liked me back. But this isn't about him. But I am 15 and I have never had a boyfriend or even close to it. Cept this kid who is part of my reject friend group but I never really talked to him much cept in like science class but I never thought of him as a boyfriend at all, and I still liked the other kid. But he asked me out and I said no like a year ago. (I just didn't know him that well and I was scared to go out with him) Anyways now I am older and we both were at this party and by the end of it I found myself totally flirting and people who know me really way could totally tell I was, and I started really liking him. I really am not sure if he likes me back though, I feel like he might, but I am not sure if he is over me yet and stuff. Like I will feel soo bad and stupid if I like ask him out and he doesn't like me anymore or something. But that was like last week, and now school starts in 2 days and I will see him again. So what should I do? Should I ask him out right away? Wait? I really don't wanna s***w up this chance to get a really awesome guy, but I have no idea what to do! Please help, and be specific! Thanks.

Answer 1

apologise....tell him u really felt sorry and u were not ready for anyone at that time and now, ask him forgiv u and accept u back...if not ....move on

Answer 2

Ask him out.

Answer 3

first of all good job getting over the kid u liked for 5 years!!!

reject friend group lol

ok serious now

i think you should talk to him on the first day of school and find out what he likes and what u have in common

like find out what tv shows he likes (like lets say....family guy? just taking a shot in the dark)

flirt a little more with him while ur talking and try to give signs u like him so he might ask u out again

he probably wont though because he knows that if u turn him down again the friendship would be over

so during the conversation try to steer the conversation in a way that lets u bring up him asking u out a year ago

if he says yes then be like ya could u imagine if i said yes and we were still dating now? he will probably say something like ya i know not really sure what to say. then thats when u say something like i think i made a really bad decision back then. h**l just be like what? and then u just come right out and ask him out.

h**l probably be shocked and not know what to say at first but odds are he still has feelings for you and even if he doesnt anymore h**l probably be willing to go out with you just to find out what would happen and give you a chance. i hope i helped and i really hope u go for it. im not sure what the exact circumstances are but it sounds like he will most likely say yes!

take it from a guy, because if i were him i would definitely say yes (well actually depending on what u look like...) but if he asked u out before im sure u havent gotten any uglier, right? lol

Answer 4

I would talk to him a bit more. Get close to him for a week or two, get to know what he's up to.

Then I would say "Oh, remember that timed you asked me out like a year ago?" He says "yes", and you say "Is the offer still good?" and smile real cute. You'll definitely get your answer.

Best of luck to you.