Dilemma ..... TTC and best friends beach wedding .... your opinions please!?

Question

I am ttc baby number 1 (only just started on the journey) and have just found out that my best friend is getting married next july. she is getting married in turkey and perviously mentioned she wanted me to be her bridesmaid ... im not 100% sure if this still stands but she really wants to be there for her and I want to be, but now I am wondering if I put off ttc so i can make her wedding, I dont want to not be able to go cos im past the 36wks for flying and im not sure if a new born flying to turkey in summer is a good idea either, but then again i dont want to not try because I know for some people ttc takes ages. please help, what are your opinions??

20 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

Answer 1

I think i may be being very silly here (sorry haha) what is TTC ???? x

AHHHHHH GOTCHA - trying to conceive.....who new eh lol.

Answer 2

I'm assuming TTC is trying to conceive......took me some time to work that out!!!

I'd say talk to your friend and tell her what your plans are. She will understand and maybe if you put off trying for a little bit so you could fly but maybe step down from the bridesmaid role.

If you speak to her first then she'll be more open to options.

I wouldn't put off trying for a baby just for one friends wedding especially if you give her another option of you going but possibly with a bit of a bump!!

good luck xx