Dilemma: to be alone or to be alone?

Question

I left him before a month, because he didn't want to live with me together. We had 2 years friendship and I was very disappointed. But the month passed, and I changed my minds. I still feel loving him, but the problem is that now he is in a deep doubt about my feelings reliability. Also he doesn't know do he want to be with me after I've done so. He told me it by Skype. He asked me to wait for a week to think about it. This is 5th day of the week, weekend is coming. But he told me that I'm too rushing him, and pleased not to force him to decide. I asked him, do he have another person also, that he's so in doubt for us? And he denied it. He also tells me that he doesn't have time to meet me after break up. But I always know that he is spending his time with male friends at home watching movies or playing games in city. I don't know what it means. Feeling that his personal ego doesn't let him to return to me.

So I decided to spend my time alone for 1 additional week and not to disturb him.

The 1st question is what should I do if I suddenly feel this pain inside and longing through this week? How not to contact him at that week?

The 2nd question is how should I understand his trying not to see me when he says "I love you and I need you be with me, but I'm not sure that I can excuse you?"

Answer 1

Just try not to think about it to much he is just giving you back what you gave him think about it you are acting and feeling like this from him saying I don't want to be around you for one week how do you think and what do you think he went threw the month that you said that to him except you punishment do your time and everything will work out fine.

Answer 2

Obviously he cares for you, however, maybe not on the level you're thinking.  If you were friends for two years strong, perhaps you're better off as friends vs. lovers.  

Obviously what he prefers to do with this time is to hang out and chill, vs. being in a commitment such as this.  Obviously you don't want to seem like a 'bugaboo' so I recommend you find something to occupy your time.

With true love, absence makes the heart grow fonder.  It's hard to miss something that is always there.  Give him a reason to miss you.