Dined and dashed and want to do the right thing, Advice!! Help?

Question

ok i want no trash talk i was down and out and pregnant so i dined and dashed at a few places, im doing better now and about to move to the city but i wanted to make it right and pay the places, should i call them, i did this Months ago.. will they be pissed? should i forget it?

Answer 1

I paid my amends forward. In my own case, I wasn't able to make amends directly to the people I harmed, so I paid them forward by helping people who were in the position to feel they had to do things like this so that they wouldn't need to.

Good luck and congratulations on your good conscious.

Answer 2

more than likely if you contact some of the places that you dined and dashed they may press charges because it is considered theft. best advice i can give you would to be mailing them an anonymous letter with the money in it with an apology. that way your conscience will quit eating at you.

Answer 3

assuming you know the amount of the bill if it was me i think i would send an anonymous note and a money order or something. i don't know if sending cash is wise. or just stop in and leave the money with a note of explanation.

Answer 4

They probably did forget.. but to technically do the right thing which would clear your concious I would send each of the establishments a note with the money inside with a written apology.

Good luck!

Answer 5

It will probably cause you more trouble than it is worth.  If you really want to make up for it, take someone who is hungry, down and out for a meal.