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Question

tonight my girlfriend of 7 months left the appartment saying she was going to go to the car to get her sheets she had in there and she'd be right back. Instead she left and went to her appartment to empty her cats litter and she ended up getting into a conversation with her neighbor about a parking situation. Befor she knew it 45 minutes had passed, I was outside looking all over for her, not knowing what happened and getting woried something bad had happened to her. I had called her three times and she did not answer. but then finnally called me back saying sorry sorry sorry. I hurts that she doesn't include me in her decision to go home, and left me worring. Is this inconsiderate and selfish of her?.

Answer 1

Why don't you get off her *** and give her some space.  Sorry..that came out kind of rude.  But seriously...people need their space and you need to give it to her.  You are not her dad and she's not your 15 year old daughter.  And I think you need to get over the fact that it's a decision that isn't up to you if she wants to go home.  But it sounds like you care about her a lot but you just need to trust her more and let her do her thing.  Goodluck!

Answer 2

Try your question here http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/dir/;_ylt=Ah... because i have no relationship experience to bestow on you, sorry but this category might get you more responces.

Edit: Unless you think she was abducted by aliens, even then i doubt you'll get many answers.

Answer 3

dude wrong category, but still i'll see what i can do,

umm i think she could b doing sumthin shes gonna regret cuz like if she knew what she was doin at least she woulda called u sayin she wants to go home alone or sumthin, if i were you, i'd just ask her, and if it bothers you, tell her to like.. stop, iight homie good luck

Answer 4

Oh, for God's sake! Give the girl a break. If you have to smother her and know where she is at all times, she's going to get pissed and leave you.

If she hounded you about where you were every second of the day, what would you do? People need space sometimes. Give it to them.  

Answer 5

Yes it is. She should have told you where she was going because it was obvious that you would worry! Sorry about that. You should talk to her about it.

Answer 6

And what this have to do with Astronomy and Space???????????