Disappointed in people answers. advice please?

Question

I was disapointed in your people answers to me before. I have another idea what if I get my bro to call social services on my mother hes 13. Three years younger then me and have him tell them what went down at mcdonalds throwing ketchup around and my mom flipping out on me. Her calling me a baby telling me i needed a high chair and a bib and a diaper on. I wanted to report her for abuse for saying those things maybe this is the best way of doing it. How many of you would agree with that or should I let my mother of the hook for dissing me for no reason?

Answer 1

what would they do for calling you names??

if she hasnt hit you then you cant do anything.

Answer 2

Grow up and she wont treat you like a baby. Don't throw ketchup, and thats not abuse dont call anyone, it wont help.

Answer 3

I've answered your questions before, and my opinion hasn't changed. Your Mom was right in what she said. I would say the same to my sons if they did that. Why not be a big kid and let it go? If this is the worst thing that's ever happened to you, then you've got it pretty good.

Answer 4

I think social services has enough to deal with! Sounds like your mum was a little stressed out, so what? Deal with it like a man and stop crying like a baby.

Answer 5

she was right, grow up

Answer 6

My brothers that far apart from me and my mom does the same stuff to me. You can't get her reported for that. If you call social services they will laugh at you. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel.  

Answer 7

so let me get this straight...

you threw ketchup in mcdonalds like a baby

your mom called you a baby

your mad at your mom

Well I agree with your mom, if you are a teenager throwing ketchup then you need to be discplined.  If you call social services they are going to agree with me.  They are way to busy dealing with children who have horrible mothers to deal with mothers who have horrible children.  

Answer 8

Ok bro...first of all..You're 16 I know this have been some hard times for you and I know how you feel. I almost turned my bro in some years ago im 24 now because he was really violent at home. Probably I should have but now i Realize something if you decide to do this be aware of the impact on your life.

i woyld try to talk to my mom first and if she doesn't understan what I'm saying i woud rather move out. Get some info on the emancipation help availiable to you .

Hope it helps.

Cheers.

Answer 9

it's so cute that you think you have so much power! Adorable, really. You are 16, shouldn't you be more concerned with dating, friends and school than with your mom? Maybe you don't have friends or dating possibilities though... maybe you lost them when you reported them for having opinions of you! I feel so bad for your family. You are such a waste - hopefully you realize that there are more important things in life than petty conflict. If you don't, your life will just get worse... and in a couple of years you won't have your mom to blame.

Social Services would laugh at you. They would do what they were obligated to do, but trust me my dear, it's not going to be near as stiff a punishment as you are looking for for your mom. And she doesn't deserve anything less a nice pat on the back and a stiff drink for having to deal with a person like you.

Answer 10

I am sure she said those things because you were being mouthy or trying to get her goat. You are not going to get better advice this time around, sorry.  

Answer 11

child services is for when a parent does something that harms the child. those are just remarks she doesnt mean it she said it out of anger maybe if she bitched slaped you call but she was jusst embarrssed so she watned you to feel bad.

Answer 12

I think you should call social services.  Do it today.

Then you can find out what happens to the child when a mother is reported.  It ain't pretty.

Go call, now.

Answer 13

Sorry to dissapoint you, but your mom did not abuse you!! She wasn't the nicest, but did not abuse you. Leave Social Services alone, there are a lot of real abuse going on out there and not enough social workers to do the job. You are taking away a social worker to handle nothing when they could be saving a child from a real monster. You are 16 years old, grow up, your mom is right. You are self centered and obnoxious sounding. You want to call social serviceson your own mom for not doing a d**n thing proves my point exactly! You are a selfish ignorant idiot!

EDIT:  I can't believe you actually e-mailed me saying, and i quote you...."I don't understand cause I'm a girl." Wow, can you say Special Ed two times fast??

Answer 14

2 points again!!!  man at first you were annoying the c**p out of me when i kept seeing this question but then i realized a stupid question means stupid answer and i get two easy points! sweet thanks pal!

Answer 15

lol sorry to break it to u hunny.. but u have no choice but to let her off the hook. whether it is u or ur bro who calls they will likely laugh! first of all you are being a baby, u are gunna call fncs cuz she "dissed u" get over it, there are children being abused that actaully need help! SO call or dont call.. anyone who answers say the same thing! Your 16.. isnt it about time to grow up? Daughters fight with their mothers...id get used to it if u plan on having your own one day!

Answer 16

You need to get over yourself! What if someone called the Police on you because you threw ketchup? That's about as bad as you calling child services for your mom calling you names. Grow up already!!!

Answer 17

why would u report ur mother for saying something like that? people have dont a lot worse than that and deserve to be in jail but u want ur mother to be introuble over a comment?

Answer 18

you are being a baby.... thats not real abuse. Be glad you don't get your a** beat on a regular basis.

Answer 19

Are you for real?  You're pissed that your mother put you in your place after you acted like an a** in public?  It's her JOB to put you in your place - you are 16 years old and acting like a little child.  Grow up, get over yourself.  That was not abuse - that was a service to humanity!

Answer 20

why did you post this under "newborn and baby" ?

Answer 21

You can go ahead and call, but it's very unlikely anything will happen.  Verbal abuse is abuse but it generally doesn't get looked upon the same way as physical abuse.  Also, I think you're a guy (based on your picture) and mother to son abuse is pretty much ignored as well.  Call if you want but realize you probably won't get any results (not even a visit from a social worker).  It might be better to let it go and just try to avoid her as much as possible from now until you're 18.  Sorry, this probably wasn't the answer you were looking for.

Answer 22

I am not sure social services can do anything major about verbal abuse, since you can't really prove it happened.

Answer 23

let her of the hook? you need to grow up. a lot.

Answer 24

You want to report your mom to social services for yelling at you for throwing ketchup? It doesn't sound like she "dissed you for no reason." Since you don't consider yourself a baby who needs a highchair, maybe you should think about how many adults you see throwing ketchup at each other in McDonalds.

Answer 25

if your really complaining about just that. then maybe you really are a baby. grow up and get over it. life is going to get much more complicated from here and ppl are going to say much worse to you. what she did was not abuse. and a case worker wouldnt give your family the time of day for something so petty. dont waste their time. their are real families out there who need real help.  

Answer 26

Let it go.  I'm sure that we are all sick of seeing these questions.  She said what she said because you deserved it.  Your mother doesn't need to be "let off the hook" because she did nothing wrong.  You did.  Grow up.

Answer 27

wait...she dissed you in mcdonalds and you want to call social services?  for abuse?  go ahead!  after the cops leave, i'm sure you'll have a real reason to call...she will beat you so bad you'll wish she'd call you a baby again!  i don't think you're going to get any better answers this time around.  besides that, if you don't need diapers, why are you asking this question in the baby section?  yahoo gives you a choice of where to put your question, or you can coose your own.  pay attention.