Discreet contraceptive ?

Question

Is there anything contraceptive which I can use without letting my husband know ?

Answer 1

i have the contraceptive implant in my arm. He would never know. It is a small tube thats not visible, inserted with a needle. Mine is 'Implanton'. Ask your local family planning clinic for advice. It is free and it lasts 3 years. Its fab!! I wish I had known about this method of contraception when I was younger!  You can have it removed any time you like, it doesnt have to stay in 3 years.

Good luck! x

Answer 2

The pill is discrete as long as you keep the pack close to you. It all sounds a bit underhand though as it is probable, from your question, that your husband wants a family. You are prepared to decieve him and let him think that either you or he is sterile. This is a one way ticket to divorce as what ever you do he will find out sooner or later. Maybe though you want the contraceptive because you are having an affair which will also cause a future problem.

Answer 3

When he finds out you're lying to him, he will probably not want to have s*x with you, so that's pretty effective.

Would you like it if he poked pinholes in the condoms, if the situation were reversed?

Answer 4

You're treading on dangerous ground here. Deception should have no place in a marriage. Having children is too serious a subject to play around with. If you don't yet want kids, you shouldn't fake as if you do.

Find out why your husband is in such hurry to have a baby. Is he willing to be a stay at home dad while you work? If not, remind him that the brunt of the work to have a baby will fall on you and you're not ready for that. It would be you that have to make the majority of the sacrifices necessary to have children. Many of those sacrifices, he can't make for you. He won't have anything to do with the emotional toll that being pregnant can cause. He can support you but he won't have to bear it. He can't physically have the baby for you. There's a lot that you'll have to be physically, mentally, and emotionally ready for. Because you don't feel you're ready is why you're taking a reliable method of birth control.

Perhaps you guys can undergo marital counseling in the meantime. A year isn't all that long to wait. You can use this time to plan out all that you can think of regarding what's necessary to plan a family. Don't allow him to push you into having a baby. It's you, as a woman, that has to endure the pregnancy. It's you that should decide when you're ready to put your body through those changes.  

Answer 5

Sounds like you need to have a long hard look at your marriage!

A marriage should be based on trust not deception.

Answer 6

pill is th best

Answer 7

Well yo shouldn't really do this without letting your husband kno..

but the injection is discreet.

You have an injection at the top of your bum every 12 weeks, there are no pills to take, little side effects, thought your periods may stop.

Some doctors don't like it because of oesteroposis (no idea how to spell that!!) but if you exercise and dont smoke then theres no chance o fgetting it.  

Answer 8

you can get an implant in your arm, takes about 5min to inject it in, last three years and noone can tell. The min its in it works, the min its out it stops working, you can have it out wheever you want to