Dismissing unwanted attention from men at work/school?

Question

I generally give non verbal signals since I don't want to ruin office/school professional relationships. If I were to verbally express it, I don't need this around work/school.

How to best diffuse situations like this?

Answer 1

How on Earth do you hold down a job.  You're very dense about this.  Telepathy does not work.  No vibrations, no mind beams and no your aura can not repel them.  You have to say it, period end of conversation.  You have to open your mouth, and out of it needs to come the words "No thank you, I am not interested."  You don't want to say this because of office relationships?   I doubt you're of much use in an office if you can't produce such a simple sentence.

Answer 2

Best case scenario is to pull the guy aside.  Tell him you like him as a friend and/or maybe that you have a boyfriend.  Not an easy thing to do & It's hard for me (as a guy) to understand what you are going thru.  

Good luck!