Divorce is a hatred system for india?

Question

I believe that this system should encourage to unlock the wedlock when the partners cant withstand. The bloody Indian society seems divorce as a hatred system which should not happen in families. If one person is not at all satisfied with the other, what is the meaning in life. If the married life is not able to produce any happier moments i feels divorce is the better option.

Answer 1

DIVORCE YOUR WIFE

IM SICK OF YOUR QUESTIONS

MOVE TO ANOTHER COUNTRY

Answer 2

My first question to you is why at all any one should enter wedlock if he or she is not interested to live bind by its rules & regulations. Any one can just live with another person as a living companion & whenever they find it difficult to live together they can move out without going for any legal procedure of divorce/annulment of marriage etc. For wedding/marriage certain legal conditions are required along with proper solemnization of marriage according to certain ceremonies, based on rites & customs of the parties but for live in relationship no such legal formalities required just live together as you wish for as much you wish & move out when you wish. If the society doesn’t allow you live in relationship then fight with the society as crusader of this live in relationship concept as many do follow it, rather even want a legal recognition for it through both legislative governments & courts. However if you want to live peacefully in society as married couple then you have to follow certain rules & regulations as provided by the enactments under which your marriage is covered. If the enactment provides certain conditions to be fulfilled before your marriage can be dissolved then fulfill those conditions & get a decree of divorce who is stopping you for not to do so? Why you blame anyone if you don't have a fit case to be dissolved by decree of divorce after all the legislature has given equal right to both parties to marriage to either dissolve their marriage by mutual consent where no other condition for divorce is required to be proved but only that the parties are staying separately for one year & their marriage is more then one year old., convince your life partner for this type of divorce & go ahead with it by mutual consent of both. The court will give you only six months time to think it over if still you want to continue your marriage but if you both insist for divorce then the court will be most happy to hand over decree of divorce in your hand. As far breaking of matrimonial home as a reason for divorce is concerned this has not yet been added in the statue although highly recommended by the both Supreme Court of India as well the Law Commission to the Law & Justice Ministry of India. Any day this reason may be brought in as ground for divorce but how it will be interpreted by the courts & what all necessary conditions will be necessary to cover one's case under this clause has to be seen. Mere dislike for the spousal body/physical structure, way or manner of indulgence in sexual activities with each other, personal likes & dislikes of both the parties of certain activities, etc may or may not be covered even in this breaking of matrimonial home clause as if each & every petty issue is made a reason for divorce then it is better not to continue the concept of marriage in the society & bring in the live in relationship concept where the future generations will be playing a puzzle game 'Who is my natural father ?' So if you want that time to come then work out from now onwards as by the time you reach my age the younger generation of that time will be posting such questions here in Yahoo answers to find easiest ways to find the natural biological parents as the person as their parent/guardian with whom they will be living must have changed a couple of partners.

Answer 3

On principle I would recommend a civilised legal separation over cooking oil every time.

Answer 4

UR right, but indians are still idealistic, they believe in religion that says, tough it out, and it will get better as both of u have to want it to get better eventually, and it will work. But such is not the case. IF the couple stay together against their will, chances are, they'll just be miserable, and either one or both won't try and just stay stagnant, and cheating will happen, either in mind, body or heart, and it will be visible by all. So it's better to split. But all marriages should be given a fair chance by both partners b4 the split, or atleast, think about what ur getting into before u enter and save all a bunch of heartache!

Answer 5

I agree,.... But its their culture their rules. Im American so this doesnt affect me =)

Answer 6

Nothing is wrong with this society. Yes everybody finds it difficult in the beginning but later when years pass by u get to understand each other better and love even more. When they are "old and mature" enough to marry then they are "old and mature" enough to solve the differences and stay togather. Marriage is not a childs play its a responsiblity. You say life has no meaning when u are not satisfied with your spouse, silly, what will you do when u are not satisfied with the second one too go on to a third one. When u have sorted all your problems and ironed out your differences, then you will feel a sense of accomplishment and this feeling would give you the meaning of life.You know its this "bloody Indian" culture that makes all the "developed" people in the "developed" countries look at us in awe and wonder.If ur a person looking for a divorce please dont give up, all ur difficult days will pass. Good luck.

Answer 7

The problem in India is the social and legal attitude.

Socially - The society looks down on divorces and gossip of either spouses cooked up tales and tarnish their and their folks. Especially the Woman's folks try to bring in a lot of sympathy trying to portray that the girls life is doomed because of the guy and his folk's problems or demand for dowry.

Legally - The laws of India are soo horrible that its just one sided ie wife sided any claim just by word of mouth is treated as solid evidence and proof and stamps the man and his folks guilty and a criminal. 90% of the divorces be it the girls issue or the boys issue or weather or not there has been dowry harassment or adultry by either parties the man is not given a chanvce to hear only the woman and her folk's words are heard making the Men and their folks not have justice creating a lot of bad blood.

In 98% of the Cases

i. Weather or not Dowry was demanded a Dowry harassment case is file upon the instigation by the Lawyers, Police and NGOs - looking for their share of quick money.

ii. Weather or not it was the problem of the Woman - the Man is held guilty and stamped criminal and not given a chance for a fair trial and is forced to pay alimony.

iii. Weather or not the Woman is independent, working or is the cause of the break or has commited adultry or psycologically challenged - the Man is forced to pay Maintenance.

iv. Weather or not the Woman is independent, working or is the cause of the break or has commited adultry or psycologically challenged and ecnomically weaker - the child custody goes to the mother and all she does is brain wash the kids against the father and his folks, extort money and properties from the father and his family to grow up the kids with the father's money to make them the father's worst enemies.

v. Even if the Woman and her family is proved to be guilty the judicary takes no action against them.

vi. A woman and her fmaily can make any kind of accusations like rape, marital rape, psycological harassment, physical harassment upon the husband and others in his family and the judicary would blindly believe it.

all these causes a hatred system!! - and all these courtesy the money hungry Lawyers, curropt police, power hungry and spineless politicians who make illogical, stupid and idiotic laws and the Womanising Judges who consider themselved God Almighty who support only women or even if they do not want to they got no spine to oppose them.

A divorce in india is a big money making industry where the Man and his folks only stand to loose loads of money, life-time savings, ancestoral properties, and prestige and position earned by generations of their family. And thanks to the snail phased judicial process the whole family looses a life time running from pole to post and in between a lot of cops, lawyers, politicians and judges make money.

Answer 8

am from India and ure right so divorce and make the country change for the better

Answer 9

there is another angle for this issue, see everybody's marriage has ups & downs, when two people live together they need time to adjust with each other, after 3-4 years they cannot live without eachother. Now if divorce is made easy then no marriage will survive because people will immediately cut out. Now after marriage people try their best to make their marriage a success, as divorce is not easy thing, this whay marriage may actually succeed. So, you got my point...