Divorce men in their 40's. How do you manage to be happy when you are all alone, sad and droopy?

Question

Divorce men in their 40's. How do you manage to be happy when you are all alone, sad and droopy?

Answer 1

it takes time. But the best thing to do is be around people. Find a new hobby. Take a class. Something to meet more people...you won't be as lonely then.

Answer 2

Why are you alone?  Without a wife nagging you at every turn, you are free to have as many friends as you want!

Guys who are "alone, sad and droopy" in their 40's are the same guys who were alone, sad and droopy while they were in their 20's and 30's.  Its called lack of social skills, if you don't ever work on it, you can't expect things to change.

Answer 3

It really is all about attitude and setting new goals for yourself.  You have to let the old life go, and not dwell on what has been lost.

Dating really helps, too, and, yes, its true, if you are with it and decent enough, you'll have women swarming around you.

Answer 4

why do you think you are divorced at 40, because your sad and droopy.Did not mom tell you to better shop around.

Answer 5

I'm in my 40s.  If my wife divorced me, I would not expect to be happy.  I would definitely be sad and droopy for a very long time.  As a matter of fact, I'd probably need antidepressants for awhile just to not be suicidal.

Answer 6

I was divorced from my 1st wife when I was in my 40's.  I quickly found out that I was a very hot property.  More women than I could handle.  Obviously, the last one I went out with is now my wife.  Smokin' hottie!

Answer 7

Stop being droopy! Get out there meet people,get a new hobby,socialise,stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Answer 8

what do you want?

that is the question u should ask yourself.

answer this question by listing it.

then go out there and live by accomplishing  each desire ( how ever long it takes.)