Divorced women please comment?

Question

I'm writing a screen play about a couple growing through a divorce, but I'm not sure how the processe happens. Please comment especially if it was you who did the divorce. Name the reason, also

Answer 1

My husband left me after 6 1/2 years of blissfully happy marriage. I was 7 months pregnant with our second child when he left, claiming that he was in love with someone else.

My heart was broken. Completely. My world was shattered. I'd been blindsided -- this came from out of no-where. I was already feeling fat and tired and unattractive because I was pregnant, but when I heard he was in love with someone else -- some young, blond, smart, beautiful woman he'd met at work, WOW. That was a blow. I wasn't sure how I was going to go on, really, but I knew that I had to somehow find the strength to suck it up and be a good mommy to our first daughter, and eventually to our unborn daughter as well.

After about six or eight months of waiting for him to change his mind, I began the healing process. At the one-year mark, I began to go out on dates. I filed for divorce. Our divorce was friendly enough ... we've vowed to remain civil for the sake of our children. Now it's over, and even though I still feel the pain and bitterness and the occasional memory pop up, I can honestly say that what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger. I'm a different person now than I was two years ago. A better person  in some ways. A damaged person, yeah, that too.

Hope that helps. I'm going to check out your other question now.

Best of luck!

Answer 2

Why would you be writing  a screen play about something you know nothing about?    

Answer 3

My ex and I are still Friends, we shouldn't of ever gotten married!  After 15 years, we decided to move on!  Well actually he moved on before I did, I mean he got a girlfriend, but I didn't mind I didn't want him to be alone!  I have since falled in Love and am adopting 4 boys, and I married there Dad 2 years ago!  xox

Answer 4

Wasn't ready for marriage in the first place, grew bored, cheated.

Answer 5

We realized after about 12 years that we really never did even like each other.

Answer 6

Divorce can be painful even when both parties want it and remain friends. It is, after all, the end of a relationship, though the relationship may just change.

I got married because I thought it was the right thing to do. Neither of us were passionately in love. After 5 years, I ended up cheating. I knew that I would keep cheating, so I left my husband. Even though I didnt want him, it hurt that he replaced me so quickly. We are friends now, and I really like his new wife (the same woman he moved in just 2 months after I moved out). Its been 4 years since we split. My fiance is still going through his divorce and it brings back a lot of memories for me. They seem to be going through the same phases. They have been separated for almost 2 years, but actually seeing the divorce papers, which they just got last week, was still weird and stressful.  Good luck with your writing.

Answer 7

My wife left me for another man.  A poor, troll man. Go figure.

Answer 8

the relationship of a husband and wife depends only and only on love....and when there is no love there is only one thing left that is a burden...

Answer 9

cheating and selfishness