Do 13 year old boy's minds get effected because of puberty?

Question

Hi, I'm a 13 year old boy, and almost 14. My voice is cracking, and my mind is racing and I might go completely nuts.

At really random times, my mind says, oh your g*y, and on the back of my head, it tells me I like my friend, who is straight, then after 5 minutes, it goes away.

Is this normal, I'm getting really confused.

I don't wan't a p***s for sure, It grosses me out, ALOT. And I like to fantasize about girls alot, but my mind is getting really angry!!

I know I'm not g*y, I don't get turned on my g*y p**n, and I get really horny around girls, and I jack off alot.

What could be the reason to this, I KNOW IM NOT g*y

I'm a christian, and I KNOW IM NOT g*y, I don't get turned on by guys.

Answer 1

*LMFAO*

You sound almost exactly like me when I was 13. Geez, takes me back.....hahahaha......

The only difference is I wasn't Christian at that stage. Well, I was but then the stress of being hormonal (plus having a hypocritical fundie father) put me off it for many years (I'm cool with it now though).

Answer 2

Yes they do.

Its completely normal, dont freak out about it.

Answer 3

You're not g*y -- just super horny. I've been there. I used to hump the pillow like crazy, sadly. Just wack it a lot and you'll be fine, kiddo. You'll start to even out by age 15 or so.

Answer 4

I consider myself a Christian and was a PK (preacher's kid), and I remember having crushes on both guys and girls- mostly guys though. Most g*y guys say they didn't get crushes on girls.

Being a Christian does not mean that you are impervious to the same things that happen to other people, including your thoughts. It sounds like you are straight and maybe have a little bit of "bi-curiousity" which I think everyone your age has some random thoughts about, at least. It doesn't make you g*y to think about some guys in ways other than just being friends.

Even from the Bible there is the example of Jonathan and David whose love surpassed that of a man and a woman. It doesn't say they had a sexual relationship, but the love they shared was acceptable. For a lot of people that would seem g*y that they loved each other more than a man and a woman.

Not saying that you are g*y, but lot of Christians accept g**s into their communities and churches like everyone else. Some churches treat g**s like lepers. Which do you think is the correct response to an entire community of people? Do you think Jesus would hate a g*y person if he were here right now? Would he stone a g*y person? Would he condone stoning a g*y person? Do you think g**s are going to h**l?

Isn't the most important commandment to love one another? Where is the word "hate" in that commandment? The only "unpardonable sin" is blaspheming the Holy Spirit. Even if the church treats g**s as sinners, what do you think is the proper way to treat someone who is a sinner? Shouldn't every church welcome with open arms anyone who wants to come and hear "good news" (good news is what "gospel" means). Yet most churches would turn away a g*y couple holding hands knocking on the doors to enter and hear what is being said.

The church calls them sinners and says god hates them and offers no love and no alternative other than tell them that they are going to h**l. Does that sound right to you?

Matthew 23:4 (Jesus talking about the Pharisees- those people that act like most people in the church do today) "They tie up heavy loads and put them on men's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them."

The church is in a sad state of affairs.

Answer 5

hahahaha  You are hormonal!  hahahahaha  It is normal for a teenage boy to be confused and have odd thoughts.  Don't worry...you aren't going nuts.

Answer 6

wow, it's just hormones. But your lucky. I stay up at night questioning everything. you do that for 3 years of your life and then post a question. Deal with it. Sorry I get like this after 8 oclock. LOL.

Answer 7

the devils tryin to shut a brotha down!

Answer 8

Yeah its completely normal. It passes after puberty. You have nothing to worry about.