Do ALL guys watch porno's?

Question

my boyfriend watched p**n all the time because hes never had a gf...now...im his first and we have been together for a year and he has been still doing it. then i found out and we talked he said he would not do it ne more...then the next day he did it and when i was at work? am i not good enough or does he not think...or do all guys just do it?

does he love me? plz plz help me out GUYS!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Lighten up and watch it with him.  It's not a bad thing to watch people having s*x.  Or, perhaps your afraid of improving on your s*x life.

Answer 2

OKAY first of all calm down! almost every guy watches porno. also, it's weired if a guy falls in love with a girl that is in a porno so trust me he's not watching it because he not intrested in you it's just what us guys do!

Answer 3

um i disagree.... some guys cant get over the hands on experience. theyd much much rather touch, but i am sure some lie about that too. i have been told by guys they just dont get into it, in less there is someone with them they can act it out with... and then one said not even then.

however looking at p**n doesnt mean he doesnt love you. it just means he may like jerking off. dont ask him to deprive himself of pleasure, it could actually hurt your relationship. would you like it if he asked you to stop shopping?

i look at p**n the same way i look at women who read their trashy romance novels. who cares? its a fantasy. besides you might enjoy it if he gets so kinky ideas. who knows if you watch you might get some ideas for yourself.

Answer 4

Have you ever watched one with him? If not, try it, you might like it. The reason most do it is because of the the fantasy, the idea of watching others (voyeur), or to get tips. If he still gets aroused when ever you are around, then I wouldn't worry about it. If he can't take care of business when you are together, then there may be a problem. If you've ever fantasized about having s*x with someone, in a certain place, or a particular position, then you have been watching p**n in your mind. Just let him watch his p**n. Tell him that you would prefer that he didn't watch it around you or leave it out for you to see. I love watching p**n with my husband and we love each other. I understand your concern, but it's not about you but more him.

Answer 5

Yes I even watch it and im a girl!!!!

Answer 6

OK...i'm a guy.  Because we look at p**n does not mean that we don't think you're attractive or that we don't love you. Many of us wish our gfs/wives would join us in watching...Do not take it personally....It's not personal...

Answer 7

Just because your boyfriend is into flicks doesn't mean that you're not good for him... Its just something that guys have a tendency of doing! Don't take it personal.... I'm sure that he still loves you. =-]

Answer 8

Not all guys watch porno,

But yes He does love you,

Answer 9

don´t be sad!

some guys and even girls, specially when they´re not too s*x experienced, need s*x all the time...

ofcourse if you are not arounf and he has the need to have s*x because his d*ck is hard, he must watch p**n.

understand him!  

Answer 10

guy is addicted to p**n. he needs help. all men watch p**n but not that much. he isnt thinking. its not about you. men just like p**n thats it. if you can live with that cool. you deserve a proper man though. as do all women. however man and woman are all defective, so i cant be judging on that alone.

if i was your boyfriend id expect you to ask me whether you love me. you cant ask people who dont even know your boyfriend whether he loves you!!!

idiot!

talk to him why dont ya. ask his mates if he talks about you. whatever. dont askquestions like that online though.

Answer 11

Pornos allow men a sense of sexual humiliation and debasement of women that we don't want to impose on our partners.

(We don't admit it of course).

Answer 12

He probably DOES love you, and you may be his key to kicking his porno addiction.

However, his expectations by now are probably pretty high after watching all kinds of the stuff, so if he's not willing to take the step to stop, you should cut him loose.

Answer 13

SHUT UP  

Answer 14

It's not necessarily true that all guys look at p**n, but so many do, and it's completely natural. He still loves you.

Actually, some girls watch it, too.

Answer 15

im a girl, but i KNOW that almost every single guy on this earth watches p**n. it doesnt mean that he loves you less or anything..guys are just horny animals.

Answer 16

not all guys... there are blind guys that don't!

don't take it personal.  better he did that while you were gone then find a new girl.  try watching with him.  Its a habbit for him.  Don't get on his case about it.  try figuring out what about it hurts your feelings.

Answer 17

yes maybe find something that you would enjoy watching together

Answer 18

Most guys do in some way or another...its nothing to do with you.

Answer 19

I cannot speak for ALL guys, only myself. I watch a lot of porno!

Answer 20

only boys watch it.when they grow up it looses all of it's attraction.

Answer 21

I do.

Yeah he loves you for sure, guys just have more urges for s*x.

So unless you want to have s*x 3-4 times a day let him toss!

Answer 22

no, not all guys watch pornos.  It may take a little prodding to change his way of life however

Answer 23

Just don't let him jerk off while watching p**n

then you know what you have to do

Answer 24

all guys look at p**n.  it's nothing bad. he still loves you.

Answer 25

Not all guys watch p**n. I have a fiance who grew up in a really bad neighborhood where they smoked, drank, did drugs, watched p**n, they did some really bad things.

When him and I started dating I was his first real girlfriend. He had other girls before me but I took his virginity and we've been together for two years.

Although some men do watch p**n, not all men do. My step father doesn't. Neither of my grand fathers did it. My fiance doesn't do it but some men do.

I don't think it means he doesn't love you I think it means he is addicted. It is very disrespectful and you need to tell him that it hurts you. People may tell you it's normal and that it's okay but it isn't.

Sometimes men can get an actual diseases where they m********e so much that they can't get it up for an actual woman. One disease I'm aware of is called Peyronie's disease. There are more but I'm not sure what they are called.

If your boyfriend continues to do it after you explain your concerns I'd dump him. It's not right for you to go through that. I hope you feel better. Best of luck with your relationship.

Answer 26

most guys watch porno, its not that he doesn't love you. of course, most of them stop as soon as they get a girlfriend.  

Answer 27

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Answer 28

All guys look at p**n.  Some more than others.  He'll think about the p**n while he's doing you.