Do I LOVE Him? I Hope Not...But The DREAMS!??

Question

We had an on off relationship when we were 12. I was heartbroken and because of it and other things i was really upset all the time so i moved schools and now i'm happy. Just after i moved i found out he's been nice to me to my face and b!tchy behind my back.

It's been a year now and i still think of him every day and dream of him ever night. I'm 15 now. I saw him for the first time a few weeks back and he just glared at me.

But last night a dream about him really hit me and it all came back. I remember everything he ever told me etc. I always dream i'm at my new school but he is there. What does that signify???

What Should I Do About This? This all ended badly because he was being mean to my ex-BFF so i confronted him on the phone and he called me stuck up etc. Talking to him is not an option.

What do i do?????

Answer 1

you will take it in the *** from him

Answer 2

Just because you have dreams about him does not mean you are in love with him or meant to be together.

He has been on your mind subconsciously because you recently saw him & the memories came back which is why you had the dream. Probably, Deep down you want him to be nice & accept you. It still bothers you that he betrayed you by talking behind you back... that was a very hurtful thing to go thru.

My advice is do not try to talk to him, continue on with your new friends & new school & don't give him a 2nd thought.   This will soon blow over...

Answer 3

It's hard to let go, because of how it ended.  If talking to him is not an option right now, pray and ask God to help you deal with these feelings.  Pray about it each night before you go to sleep.

I pray you have sweeter dreams!

Fairelight

Answer 4

Move on.  It sounds like he has anger problems.  It also seems as if he may be too possessive.  It is odd for him to be jealous of your ex-boyfriend.  You can still be attracted to someone who is not good for you, but you will probably be sorry if you try to start something with him again.  You don't need anyone around you who talks about you behind your back.  With friends like that, you don't need any enemies.  Try thinking about something else before you go to sleep, and see if you can dream something enjoyable.

Answer 5

It's interesting how dreams work.  Your dream is not really about the person you knew.  He represents a part of your self you lost touch with at a younger age.  The "school" represents learning experiences that you have yet to go through.

Answer 6

You have to let this guy back into your life, he is already in your heart. I think you need to acknowledge your feelings and do something about it, and give up misplaced loyalities and ties. PLEASE listen to your heart. You want him back.