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I would like to hear your opinions please.I have been going with my boyfriend for nearly 2 year now and i am currently 6 month pregnant with his baby.The thing is he is really nice during the week but when a weekend comes its horrible. He always wants to go out on a weekend and never wants to do anything with me. he always says that we can't afford to do anything but then he will find away to go out and drink with his mates. as soon as his mates phone him hes up and out. and i get myself really upset about it because he could go out on a saturday morning and roll in Sunday morning. he sometimes says hes fell asleep on his mates couch which i believed at first but then when one of his best mates told me that he hadn't been home and had fallen alseep on that persons couch he actually stayed at another womens house. so now when my boyfriend says things like that I cant believe him and I did find out that in his past he did go with other women whilst having a girlfriend.Also all of this is making me stressed and depressed because i he goes out knowing i cant go anywhere with having no money, i have tried to talk to to him about it a number of times but he just takes no notice.Fair enough go out and have a couple of drinks with his mates but why stay out and give me hassel everytime he comes in. He can be really nasty its like hes a different person everyone keeps saying he will change when i have the baby but why should i have to put up with it until then and after all that waiting what if he doesnt change. I just don't know what to do anymore I've tried talking to him and suggesting things to do together but he would just rather be with his friends on a weekend. we both work monday to friday and are too tired to do anything after work. We were off for 2 weeks at the beginning of August and he still wouldnt do anything.I just feel fed up and trapped. do i leave him? if i do leave would i be able to cope on my own with the money problem and stuff. Well am saying money problem he gets paid £300 a week about sometimes even more. I get paid £700 a month and just pay the bills out of that and he buys the food shopping. if he cant afford to do anything how can he go to the town nightclubbing and spend over £200 its really getting me down.how can i make this better i just havn't any clue what i can do. i dont think i could afford to live on £700 a month on my own but then i can't live like this anymore i'm not the funny loud person i used to be. i just don't no what to do.
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