Quick Update: I will be getting my cousin a little sooner. Instead of the 30th, she will be here Monday! This is because school starts the next Monday, and we don't want her to start already behind. Anyway, when I talked to her last night and told her the good news, she was super excited and started asking all kinds of questions. Like "will I have my own room" and "what time do I have to go to bed" which are all simple enough, but there was one that got me. She asked "Do I call you Mommy?" and I was not sure what to say. I told her she can if she wants but she does not have to.
Question: For those of you who have adopted older kids, do they call you mommy? How about those of you raising family members, do they call you the actual relation you are or mommy? If she does decide to call me mommy, will I need to explain to her teachers and such why my daughter is only 8.5 years younger than me? How do I do this with out constantly refering to her as "adopted"?
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