Do I deserve a 3rd chance with her? PLEASE HELP!?

Question

I wrote this to her a couple days ago, and I was wondering if after you read this, if I do deserve a second, chance.

I'm gonna be completly honest with you, b/c we didnt have much time to talk last time. I realize you cant check this very often but if you ever read this, you will come to realize how truely and madly i'm in love with you.

For the past 6 months, i was dating a girl who I thought loved me for me, just as I did her..Never happened. I made a mistake and I realized now what it was, I should have stayed here with you and not pushed you away, and I am sorry for that. I really am.

You knw my philosophy on love, your my true head over heels. You bright beautiful smile, cheers me up instantly...Your eyes, oh my ******* god, I would honestly love to wake up to those every morning, I could get lost in your eyes. Man I sound so cheesy, and cliche, but I just dont care, I feel a certain way and you NEED to know.

Summer 07: A young man goes to a fair to escape home, falls in love with a girl, over the most passoniate kiss EVER! You can feel love through kisses, I feel it, it makes me feel all warm and tingly. We dated a month and things went south. 3-4 months later you want to talk to me, and you told me that you love me as we got off the phone, I didnt say it back, and I regret it to this day.

Maggie, I love you so much, no matter whats going on around us, I always feel like its just us. You comfort in the hardest times, you love in ways that no-one else can, you make me feel good about who I am, ad you see my potential, and its likewise for you, I know you have gone through some deep ****, But I know you are strong enough to fight. Every step you take, I want to be there...

I'm sorry this is taking so long to read, But I have lots to say. Your beauty is above and beyond what I've heard of angels, I dont believe in much in this world, Family, Friends, and Us. We CAN do this. When I talked to you earlier, I told you I loved you and apologized for my mistake. Blindness was my downfall, I didnt see the most obvious thing. Your love and affection...

Maggie, I offer you my heart.

I offer to take you to the end of the world and back.

I promise to take your hand in the crossfire

Maggie, I love you...

Always have and always will.

Answer 1

You really think this is going to work?  You're a funny guy.  Thanks for the laugh.

But seriously, everything you wrote is a lie from start to finish.  If you were cheating on her for six months, you have already proven, that you do NOT in fact love her so much, that you do NOT in fact want to be there for every step she takes, that she does NOT in fact have your heart and all the other c**p you copied out of some schmaltzy love song.  

Don't insult her intelligence.

Answer 2

You dated another woman for 6 months. How can she believe that you are not going to do this again. A fantasy is one thing, but actually doing the deed is another thing. A letter wont justify anything you did because you did it.

Answer 3

I would not take you back if it were me. If you truly felt that way about her in the first place, you never would have been able to date any other girl. This is all a lot of fancy BS to cover up the fact that you were a "grass is greener" type of guy and messed up.  Live and learn, but I really hope she can see through you and doesn't give you the time of day.

Answer 4

Nah, only if she still wants you

Answer 5

Chances are you got more second chances then you realized after awhile the second chances are no more , there is no third chance, sorry next time learn from your mistakes .Let her find someone who is deserving  

Answer 6

You had her, didn't know how lucky you were, found someone else, was in love with that woman, but it didn't work, so now you have decided you are madly in love with her and can't live without her.

If I was her would I give you, who is confused and doesn't know what he is doing, a second chance to hurt me? NO! I wouldn't even respond to you letter. You had a good thing and blew it.

Hurt me once, shame on you!

Hurt me twice, shame on me!

Hurt me three times and that makes me a complete fool and I'm not going down that road for any man.

Answer 7

This is very heartfelt, and sincere, and hopefully, it will be enough.  Having gone through this about four years ago which didn't work after all since things had gone on in the other relationship so long, it's going to be difficult for her to forgive you while you are saying this is the third time.  She has no trust or faith in your love for her to be steered so easily away from your relationship with her.  So, the only thing that you two may not have tried would be going to therapy together.  It takes more than love to keep a sincerely strong relationship together.  Wish you luck in getting her to listen, and getting her back in your life.

Answer 8

Nope.

Answer 9

just take out the oh my you know what out and youll be fine i guess