Okay, this isn't going to sound pretty but I haven't found a discussion thread anywhere, so I'm just going to ask. I'm Philipino. I grew-up in diverse areas and never had a probl w/ black ppl before. I work w/ an African-American woman. I find out that she's super stingy (I'm pretty sure that she grew up in the projects), doesn't treat her daughter nicely nor her parents. She tells me that she'll hide gourmet food that clients give us when she goes home from her daugher b/c she can't make herself share. She talks about her daughter like she's a burden (she's 7 yrs!!). She told me that her husband and her keep separate bank accounts. She keeps all of her money in separate account and doesn't pool it together with her husband. I told her that it doesn't sound fair. She said all of her girlfriends do that too and some even lie to their hubbies & they're all black. Is this a black cultural thing? Or is it her personal issue thing? I don't want 2 b judgmental, help!
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