To all who've posed this question to their adoptive parents (or wanted to but was afraid to ask) or to those who have answered this question...
My three year old son asked me again, "Do I have a Daddy?". Once again, I told him that everyone has a {and this time I used the term natural} natural mother and father. You have an Uncle and a Papa (Grandfather)... but not a Daddy. We don't know your natural mother or father. Maybe one day we'll meet them and/or maybe you'll have a Daddy only time will tell. All families are different.
Then (and this is when I thought- WOW, this boy really listens!) he said what about my first.... first...? I know he was remembering about one time I told him about his first mother, the mother who's tummy he was in... and then told him about his second mother who was his foster mother and then me, his Mommy.
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