Do I have a chance? with her?

Question

I'm a Junior in high school, and Ii like a girl. I've liked her for quite a while, but due to another arrangement (on her part) I haven't been able to move in. The other arrangement is, obviously, a boy. They dated for about 2 years. During this time we've been good friends. The conversation just flows and I make her laugh all the time. They broke up a week or two ago. She doesn't seem sad or anything (I'd know if she did.) We still talk all the time this year, and we chat quite a bit as well. I invited her (and her friends) to go to a concert my church is holding, and she accepted. Later, I told her I might be late because I had to go to my gma's anniversary party. She (jokingly) said she wanted to go. Afterwards, I invited her and she accepted. Do you think she likes me? Has it been to short a time to try and start anything? If I tell her before the party, will it make it awkward? Yahoo Answers, I need help.

Answer 1

never

Answer 2

Start off as friends as you slowly move forward.  Don't push her since she just left a 2yr relationship.

Answer 3

Just Ask her out and no i don't think it is to early

Answer 4

NO SHE DOESNT

Answer 5

TRY IT

US GIRLS ARE SOMETIMES SHY,WE CANT READ MINDS!!! SO GO AHEAD AND TELL HER YOUR INTO HER, IF SHE LIKES YOU DEN SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU!

GOOD LUCK...:) hope i helped:)

Answer 6

Yes it has been long enough time for her to recover unless it was a bad breakup. And you should tell her how you feel just don't take it bad if she just wants to stay friends because from what you say, it sounds like you are a good friend to her and that might and i say might be all she wants right now from you. But hey you wont know until you talk to her. Good Luck!

Answer 7

You don't; an hero

Answer 8

If you think you both had a lot of fun at the party then tell her afterwards. She keeps accepting your offers so she probably likes you too  

Answer 9

Well you could tell her before, but to be honest, do it in proper style. After you've performed to her at your best ability you should take her outside for a "chat" and then tell her whilst sitting on a wall with a nice view. :)

Answer 10

no she sounds like she rele likes you and if u asked her out to go to ur gma's anniversary and she sed yes she must like you i say see how it goes to the concert and if it all goes well after the concert ask  her out where its just u and her and see what she says

good luck dude

hope this helps

Answer 11

You need to be aggressive and confident. When you wait too long you are permanently "friended" and you are basically out of luck.

Remember that all girls want a guy just as much as you want them. More importantly, time can only make your situation worse. If she wanted nothing to do with you romantically, then she would've made her decision by now and waiting won't change that.

You need to split her from the pack, so to speak. Ok, "romantically speaking" you need to have some alone time with her. Just invite her out for something fun and simple, but try not to pick an environment that is too neutral. For example, a bowling alley could seem comfortable, but the environment is too open and suited for large groups of friends. Go out for a walk with her. You don't need a reason. Just say you're bored. Try to plan it so that you come across an ice-cream shop or something fun and simple like that. While you're walking, pace yourself slowly, you're not on a mission to get anywhere, you're just enjoying each other's company. Talk her up while you're out. Ask her what she's been up to, tell her little funny stories about things that have happened to you or around you. They can be stupid stories. For example, "this one time, I was getting ready for school and totally went out in my godzilla slippers" OK bad example (this actually happened to my grandma if you replace school with church and cut out the word godzilla... actually if you say the line about replacing words, that actually turns into a marginally funny joke. But yeah you get the idea.

Show her a good time, build your relationship, making decent eye contact the whole way, but not looking like a creeper. OK, moment of truth. Then while you're walking along a quiet spot, stop and tell her you like her. Briefly tell her how cute she is. Then maybe take her hand in yours, while maintaining eye contact, and depending on how she reacts bring it up to your face, maybe kiss her wrist--only if she is reacting very positively. At that point, you're either rejected or you're in. The relationship becomes very straightforward at that point--well for a little while. When it gets complicated again, uh, i guess... just ask for advice on Yahoo again.

The point is, you gotta make a move. The fate is really already determined now. You can't make her like you, but it's hard to s***w it up if she already likes you. The whole story I described is just you controlling the situation. This makes it easier, but you only need her for a minute to finally make your move. If you can't do all that i described, then that's fine. Just get out there and do it. Unfortunately, you won't know until you try, so why are you still reading this. go young padawan, go

p.s. any ladies out there think I'm awesome ;) feel free to thumbs up me or something, like, really, let me know if you think this would be sound advice.

Answer 12

Think about it this way your off to college soon and she is finally free for you to ask her.  If she was your friend then she obviously does have a feeling for you. You never know if you dont try =]

Answer 13

tell her after the party, if she says no don't spoil the moment.

Answer 14

She may like you as a friend... however there is not enough info to make an accurate theory. You never know it may be that you 2 were meant for each other. Here try this... first ask her to go to a movie with you, one she would like, then take her out to dinner or the other way around. During this time make your move but carefully, don't rush or you may destroy the moment. If your alone with her ask her if she would like you as a boyfriend... you never know until you ask.

Answer 15

It's good she has someone she can hang out with.  Take this relationship slow, for there is nothing worse than being the rebound gal/guy.  Let her know you are interested, but you will respect her by giving her sometime to get over the other guy.

If she's cool, she will let you know when she is ready.

You guys sound like you enjoy one anothers' company, but you don't want to lose that.

Answer 16

she likes you :) just keep being really nice to her, (you're doing great :D) and then after a few times hanging out with her, ask her to a movie or something one on one  

Answer 17

She likes you bud. :)  If a girl wants to come to a family function type thing like that, it usually means she's into you.

Think about it... would you want to go to some random girl's grandmother's house???

Answer 18

Don't try yet. Have fun for another couple weeks then try something. You don't want to get a girl off the rebound either. She probably already knows you like her considering you have invited her to these places.

Good Luck!

Answer 19

Just relax and be yourself, that is why she likes you in the first place. Don't be so rushed to put a title on your "relationship" just enjoy her company and tell her that you enjoy it!  

Answer 20

Of course you have a chance with her.

What's meant to be will ALWAYS find a way.

Trust me.

Answer 21

no way. she just needs a friend

Answer 22

well she might think your friends so turn on the flirt and if she does keep it going or you might be friends