Do I have a problem? not a boyfriend question

Question

Okay, a lot of times I will call my boyfriend and he doesn't answer. He's not mad at me or anything. Later he tells me that he was busy. I know he doesn't wanna break up because if he did, he'd come right out and tell me. But, I start to freak out when he doesn't answer. I cry, and then I have to go smoke a cigarette. I feel like I worry way too much about things, and they are never as bad as I think. Do I have an anxiety problem?

Answer 1

no i use 2 do that when i was younger an i just didnt want to be lonley plus i was bored an when i could't talk to him it made me upset so i cryed but i got over it lol=)

Answer 2

Possibly.  Not enough info to tell.

But you definitely have "trust issues."

Without trust.......there is NO relationship.  Stop tormenting yourself and trust him. A lot of girls don't trust guys.  Sure there are a lot of guys that use girls.  But never think that a guy can take your trust away.  He can't.

Keep trusting.  If a guy is going to go out on you...then he is UNTRUSTWORTHY.  It has nothing to do with your trust at all.

:)

Answer 3

It just sounds like you are bored and using your boyfriend as an outlet for your boredom.  You are focusing way too much on him.  Try to find things to keep you busy that don't involve him.  You almost sound like you have a slight obsessions.  I have definately had similar issues with men.  I realize that I need more in my life than a man to keep me entertained, busy and emotionally satisfied.  He may also not be the right one for you.  If he knows this about you then he should respect your little quirk and work with you to feel better about this.  Just remember: YOU don't need any other person in the world to supply you with emotions.  You are capable of making yourself feel good and fulfilled.  Also, it is not a man's responsibility to keep you emotionally stable you need to do that for yourself.  Stop obsessing and go out with your friends or take a dance class or something.  Find YOUR passion in life and it is not a man.

Answer 4

yes  yes yes!just chill out the man needs his space or he will split wit u call him ONCE A DAY and besides you cried for no reason and wen he calls he calls so stop freaking out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

YESS omg sorry, but go get some therapy.

you will f*ck yourself over in the future if you continue to live your life like this.

Answer 6

stop callin him     let him call u some   and dont ***** about him not answering    hes probably annoyed

Answer 7

Maybe you do or maybe you're really just paranoid and don't trust your boyfriend. Talk to someone about how you feel, especially if you cry just because the phone doesn't ring.

Also think about your relationship, is it serious or casual. If it's really just casual then maybe you should speak to a counselor or a psychologist.

Also maybe you're just a little too dramatic. Try taking a deep breath and relaxing before you get worked up.

Take care.

Answer 8

lol, no I don't think so. I did that when I was 18 a few yeras ago. If my bf didn't answer his phone, I'd freak out and cry also. He was my first real relationship, so I was making a big deal out of everything. We're married and expecting now. Just relax. Let him have his space, and you need yours as well. There will be times when he cannot answer his phone, as I am sure there are times that you cannot as well.  

Answer 9

He probably doesn't like the smoking. I know I wouldn't go out with a girl if she was a smoker joker.

Answer 10

well i worry alot too but u just gota chill

Answer 11

yes theraphy sounds good it does help lol and you will get screwed in the long run

Answer 12

It might help if you had more going on in your own life--maybe you should be busy sometimes, too. Go out, go to the gym, read a book, but find something better to do with your time than worrying.  

Answer 13

not really!number one:don't smoke!!number two:yur just sensitive!number three:relax!number four:don't worry to much and try not to think much about it!and don't cry!number five:i use to have that problem when i was little!i grew out of it!and i am laid back!when i start to freak out about some stuff i hold my breath count to 10 sec and breath out!it will go away!it is normal!!and remember don't worry to much!u will get a panic attack!calm down and good luck!;)

Answer 14

I just think ur having a Anxiety problem from not meeting him in person for a while.

Answer 15

My guess is that you think or feel that he is ready to break up with you. When he does not answer, it makes this feeling even stronger.

DO you think he is really busy? Or is he just trying to not talk to you? How often do you call him?