Do I have a right to get mad about this?

Question

OK so i have been dating this guy for a year and 9 months. I am extremely unhappy in the relationship, and am trying to get out of it.

I WILL admit that what i was doing is wrong, but my trust for him has gone down the drain the past few months.

I was looking through my boyfriends wallet while he was in the shower, and tucked in an obscure pocket was a picture of a girl. it was obviously a senior picture. (they graduated together) Apparently she gave it to him when they graduated, because on the back it said "good luck, class of 2005", etc.

I completely believe that he has not talked to her, and he never dated her, but do you find it weird that over 2 YEARS after graduating, he has this picture of some random girl from high school in his WALLET?? i found it very disturbing. He doesnt even have a picture of ME in there. (long story, i ripped up the one he did have, but he never replaced it)

when i confronted him about it, he acted like it was no big deal to have pictures of random girls in his wallet...do i have a right to get mad over this??? thanks..

Answer 1

she was his love, hence the pic, and you are someone to help pass the time.

Answer 2

You had absolutely no right to get into his wallet. Also no right to destroy his property. No you are simply wrong on this. He'd be better off without you.  

Answer 3

he probably just forgot it was in there...