Do I have to get attached to this kid?

Question

This little kid likes me. Do I "half" to get attached to the kid in order to be a "older friend". I am 18 male, and the kid is 3 girl. She is a neighbor.

Answer 1

Why would you want to be attached to the girl? o.O;

"half"?

Answer 2

I only understand english. =]]

Answer 3

maybe she looks up to you. just don't hurt her feelings when she starts to annoy you.

Answer 4

Yeah

Answer 5

no way!!!

i dont think a 3 year old even has feelings 4

a person. lol.

but uhh... no dont, cause they might say that u raped

her.  so yea.  and it could b 4 life or a real long time!

Answer 6

Introduce yourself to this little girl's parents, and explain to

them, their little daughter is cute, but you prefer someone

your own age, to let them know, with respect,

you are not a "predator." That little girl may help be your friend

or in later years, become your worst nightmare. Trick or treat.

Answer 7

whaaa be like a big brother too herr =)

Answer 8

no you dont have to get attached, but it is cute if you think about it. Yet if you are just a neighbor and no relationship then there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be involved, inless you are involved with the mother, or friends with the father...and then its just best you be nice. But no 18 year olds arnt suppose to be friends with 3 year olds in the first place.....so dont be to hard on yourself

Answer 9

You don't have to get attached if you don't feel comfortable being attached. Make her feel like you enjoy having her around. Don't make her feel that you don't. She is probably just looking for you to be nice and caring. Why don't you try and get her something nice. Maybe a toy or something. Just think of something you know might make her feel good and less attached to you.

Answer 10

why does it bother you?

Answer 11

Yeah this is a little creepy. Ok a lot creepy! Be nice to her I guess. I am sure she is just looking up to you. This is a weird ?.

Answer 12

I agree with the first person... wtf?? I think an 18 year old shouldn't be befriending any little child. I think staying away from this little child would be the best idea! Creepy....

Answer 13

Uh...that's kind of a weird question...just be cool about it. She just looks up to you because you're older and "cooler" and she's probably always wanted an older brother- when I was younger, I did.

Answer 14

um ?

Answer 15

no you dont hafta get close to her. just be friendly that is all! lol.

Answer 16

wtf?

Answer 17

oh boy

Answer 18

Hey I consider you being kind and generous to her even if you may not like her. If you have some one who looks up to you ,you should not set a bad example and hurt her feelings.

Answer 19

well just be nice to her its not like ur dateing her