Do I have trust issues?

Question

does a wife have the right to know where her husband is every hour even when at work. what he is doing and who he is with (husband is an entertainment business and does not have regular job has (have 4 4hour shows a week put has people running 6 others Is gone almost daily for 10-13 hours)

Answer 1

thats more like a prison guard, not a wife. so my answer is no.

he should not hide things, but give him some space.

Answer 2

A "Right" this is not a question of "Rights".  He can

do what he wants without your permission, who

do you think you are?

If he has breached the trust such as cheating

that is another story, otherwise back off and

stop controlling....that is a nuissance

Answer 3

trust him or you'll push him away.

Answer 4

Yes, i do think you have the right to know this! But you might want to back off a little bit...you dont want your husband to feel like that you dont trust him. Or maybe you honestly do not trust him? has he done anything to make you feel that way? Think about that. And when you've come up with an answer please have a talk with him about it because im sure he is also wondering why you call him every hour at work. If you talk about it you guys will probably both feel better and become closer! And also you might even come up with a solution. [:

Hope my opinion helped..Good luck!

Answer 5

If you feel the need to ask all the time - then you must not trust him.

Relationships do not survive (unless they are on life support) without trust.

Answer 6

I can understand why you want to know where he's at 24/7 but you have to trust him , until he gives you a reason not to trust him.

Answer 7

do what? you mean you've got to pin  a gps on him? sheesh....get a life will ya.

As far as I'm concerned No....to some degree yes, but if I was being hounded like I suspect he is, I certainly wouldn't want you.

Answer 8

I think it is fair you are feeling this way considering his career. Talk to him.  If he is defensive he may have something to hide.

Answer 9

I would say you have the right, if you can prove ownership. My wife did that to our marriage and it destroyed our marriage. It's not a matter of him it's a matter of distrust issues you have. Has he given you a reason? Does all his efforts to bring home a paycheck add up?

Is he interested in you sexually? I can tell you that if not, try backing off. When my wife did that to me, the distrust nonsense, it didn't make for a comfortable bed situation. Ask him if you can tag along and tell him how you feel, but if I were you, I'd be real careful about accusing him of things he's not doing, it will end up in divorce. I couldn't stand it, I was sick to my stomach all the time and just wanted out, even with a broken heart.  

Answer 10

You're either insecure or have no trust for him. Has he done anything that could have violated your trust? Or do you see him as the "more" attractive one in your relationship?

IMHO, if he's screwed up and you both are trying to make it work, then yes, you have that right. BUT, if he can bold faced lie to you while looking you dead in the eyes, it wont matter what he says any way.

Answer 11

yes you have a trust issues...

leave your husband alone and do his job and when he comes home, he can tell you how his day went and stop questioning him or doubting him....if he fails, lie, cheat...that's his loss choice....and u can move on better life...dont waste every minute chasing his *** around..thats not healthy life.