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Do I like him or am I just being paranoid?

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So lately I've been thinking about my best & only guy friend. He used to mow my neighbor's yard over the summer but they moved so now he doesnt mow here anymore. I kinda miss him mowing. Especially today when I wandered around outside by myself. I thought about how he knows 1 of my embarrassing secrets. & how my mom actually approves of him. I think about how if he still mowed here that he'd come over to my house again. & at school my 2 best friends actually looked at me & him in the lunch line & said to each other, "R u thinking what I'm thinking?" Then they made a heart in the air. & me & him were just kinda confused about that. But now I've been thinking about it a lot, & it bugs me when he talks to other girls. Do I really like him or am I just being paranoid? & If i do, I don't want that to ruin our friendship.

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  1. duh... you like him. whats there to be paranoid about? liking him? that's silly. either you like him or you don't. nothing to be paranoid about. he probably likes you too. ask him about it.


  2. eh, keep him as a fantasy it will be better that way and won't ruin your friendship either. but hang out and have fun with him. I mean, its like you arn't gonna marry him, don't make a big deal out of it

  3. trust me.... you're better off just being friends.  yes, you do actually like him.  i dated my best guy friend and it didn't work out and our relationship was never the same.  we hardly talk anymore.  it's going to be hard, but don't do it!

  4. tell him how you feel about him instead of holding your feelings inside of you. You could ask him does he feel the same way about you just to clear things up. You can get mad all you want; but you can not stop him from talking to other girls because you and he are not in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. You are just friends. I hope that answered your question.

  5. Sounds like loooove!

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  7. Cool same problem as you...:) except I trust this girl...I guess you could say she is my only female frst abouiend and that I trust her with jut every embarassing secret I have...the thing is she has a bf...so sad about that...she is the first person I trusted in a long time...and she hasn't made me regret it...I guess I could call it love...but then again that is a very strong word...it could be the feeling you think it to be or it could be the feeling of trust...but trust for some people can equate to love as well so I guess...it's more dependent upon you...for me it ispartially love but sad love...for you it is love but love with a possibility...grab your chance talk to him I'm sure he'll like you...:) good luck

    keep me posted...

  8. Yes, I think you do, or at the very least think you want to get something romantic going with him.  Ask him to do something with you,,  see how it goes.  Just go slow, watch for warning signs or encouragement!

  9. ur a girl, of course u like a boy that is super sweet 2 u. and why would he say no if u ask him out? if u 2 laugh at each others jokes, and if ur best friends see it, then give it a try, the worst that would happen would be a little embarrassment, but if hes a good friend, he'll understand what u mean.

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