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My cousin is getting married and mum and I got an invitation less than a month before the wedding. She has lived with this guy for a few years (4) and they have 2 children already. She lives about 5 hours away from us so we are not attending (esp with the short notice).We have seen my cousin (her niece) twice, in the last 15 yrs and do not talk with her either (altho we just got in touch on facebook) - other than those 2 times we have seen her we have no communication.What is the ettiquette for this? Should we be sending a gift or just sending a congrats card? I don't want to be cheap (cuz I'm not) but it seems silly to give my money away to someone (I myself have 3 children) I won't hear from for another few years unless we head out that way for holidays (she has never come to see us since she has been an 'adult'). Don't want to cause a family drama but.. what should we do?Thanks
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