Do I sound crazy or mean???

Question

Ok, well I want to switch schools even though I have some friends at my current school. There is 1 mean girl and I guess I just want to be alone sometimes. There are some people that I don't like that hang around me and that bothers me and I kind of want to be a new kid and I sometimes just want to be alone and I ask my mom about switching schools all the time but all she ever says is, "Maybe next year." or "I'll think about it." but the problem is she never does. Do I sound mean or crazy and why do I want to switch schools??? Thanks!

Answer 1

It is better to face your problems then to run form them. It depends of the severity of the meanness, or the danger they might pose to you. We all need to face our problems and deal with them. rather then run from them. I too had enemies in school. Why? Because they chose to be my enemy. Not because I did something to them. It makes no sense. But I dealt with it.  

Answer 2

I feel the EXACT same.

You don't sound crazy or mean or anything.

You sound like you're ready to meet new people and enter the world.

You probably don't have the many people in your grade.

Ex: I'v been going to a school for seven years with the same 60 kids.

After a while, you want to meet new people! You shouldn't feel ashamed for wanting to explore! I want to switch too, but that also doesn't mean you have to dump your old good friends in the trash. You can still have them over for sleep overs. It's not the end for them, and it's not a beginning for new people. It's just YOU  - exploring and meeting new people. It's a step towards the future for you, so don't be afraid to take it!

Good luck! :]

Answer 3

You should not switch schools.  You need to learn how to deal with the problems at hand.  When you become an adult and have a career you will encounter all kinds of people including those who you don't 'like.'  When you are an established adult it will not be wise to jump from job to job simply because people are 'mean.' or you don't find them to be your best pal.  High school isn't just about learning your subjects it's also a place to learn social skills.  Right now you have the opportunity to develop diplomatic skill when dealing with people you may not have the fondest feelings for, switching schools won't teach you anything but how to leave when things get difficult.

Answer 4

you want to change school because of something that happen. and it is ok. you don't want to go to a school that you are not happy with. and you need to talk with your mother about it. tell her that you are not happy there. and if she won't help you with that. tell her that you are going to drop out. maybe that will change her mind. good luck.

Answer 5

because you want a frsh start with fresh people. makes sense to me!

Answer 6

Dont run from a stupid girl.

Answer 7

Hi chelsfunn,what i think is you might need to change your mind set towards the surrounding.i cant say that i understand what's going on there cuz there might be other factors that contribute to your current status.please.reflect yourself upon these questions

1.why the particular girl likes to be mean to me?have i ever mistreat her or did something that offended her?

2.why do that bunch of guys like to disturb me for no reason?or there might another reason behind all these?

3.what difference will it make if the school i transfer to consist of the same type of people?

4.can i change them?do i have thew right to change who they are?

no matter what are your answers to the queations,i must tell you something i found out about life.

that is I MIGHT NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE OR CHANGE THE ENVIRONMENT I'M IN.BUT I'VE ABSOLUTE POWER TO CHANGE MYSELF INTO SOMBODY THAT CAN SURVIVE ANY HARSH ENVIRONMENT.that is WHY mankind manage to survive and  be the top among all creature(exclude those that is invincible)...hope you got wat i mean.good luck.=)

-SJ-

Answer 8

Doesn't sound like you're either. But you do realize that no matter what school you attend, there will still be similar acting kids just in a different location, right? You have to settle in your mind that you like yourself and your friends then it won't matter which school you chose to attend. If you already have friends, why would you leave them anyway? Either ignore the mean girl or pull her aside (when no one is around) and ask her what her problem is but in a nice way. Maybe she's just misunderstood.