Do I stay or do I go?

Answer 1

tough situation.  he neeeds to get his priorities in order.  there are so many factors....... would he be open to counseling........cuz there alot of issues to work through here.

we've been together 3 years, married 2.  he has 4 boys , i have 3 that live with me.

my husband plays favorites with his kids too.  and use to put them before me.  we've been through counseling the last 4 months, and still are, and its really helped.   there are alot we still don't see eye to eye on, but as we learn to understand each other.....he has become more willing to let me do some things my way. also, i wasn't communicating my concerns the right way. i would put him on the defensive .  and there is alot  he didn't know, or understand, and just needed to learn alot.  he still needs to learn alot, but its coming along.   if he wasn't willing to make some changes.......there is no way our marriage would have worked.