Do U have a gud relationship with your mom?

Question

me & my mom, don't have very gud communication but yet, i still love her...but yet i think i hate her?

Answer 1

You did not state how old you are.  But some relationships come with maturity. Young lady your mom can be your very best friend. She will be there for you when no one else will. She will love you unconditionally as long as you respect her.  I know that sometimes moms can be over bearing and strict.  But it really is because they don't want you to go through the same things that she did, she's really trying to spare you some headache's and heart aches.Please remember, you only have one mother, and if it was not for her you wouldn't be here.I'm not saying that you will not have differences in opinions and don't always like each other. Don't ever say that you hate her.  If she was some crack head that was never there for you or some alcoholic that put herself and every-ones elses needs before you than I could understand.  but if she's there for you loving and trying to help you and she's doing the best that she can do.  Then seriously appreciate her and love her.  Because you just never know when you no longer have her.  I lost mine 8 years ago to lung cancer and it still hurts like h*** on a daily basis.  Good Luck and God Bless!

Answer 2

I am old enough to have my own kids now. I did and still do. Sometimes it is hard to stay as close as we age and move on. There are times of "maturing/independence/" that find a little tension or stress due to conflicting opinions/values with Mom.

I would never say "hate" is a word I would use to describe that stressful time. Irritation/annoyed maybe but not hate. I was respected and loved I in turn was the same. I did not intentionally rock the boat/or throw in their face any defiance or rebellion.

So if they respect you and you them just except that sometimes this tension/differences will erupt-part of growing up to be your own woman.

Good luck

Answer 3

Me and my mother are very close and we are best friends.

Answer 4

I think that is completely normal. I used to hate my mother and love her at the same time..but when I grew up and learned that everything my mother ever tried to teach me was right..The real world is cruel and startling...and it took going out and falling to finally realize she had been right after all these years..Now, I just love her and hope she can forgive me for being such a rebellion when I was a teenager..Im 22 now and I am married and have two children..And I am expecting the same from my children..Just listen and have patience...

Answer 5

I dont have the best relationship with my mom, we have bad communication a lot of the times, i guess its cause our personalities differ tremendously! But in the end she is my mom, and i'll always love her ! U do too! Even though u sometimes feel like u dont ! Lool i get thos feeling soemtimes, but they disappear once u cool down !

Answer 6

nope not "gud"