Do Women like a Man who will TAME them?

Question

By Tame, I mean think Scarlet O'Hare in "Gone With the Wind," at the beginning she had a pissy attitude towards him, but after Brett gave her a few slaps carried her up stairs and rode her like a horse; the very next scene she was making him breakfast. I think women would prefer a man who dominates them more than a nice guy. What do you think.

Answer 1

....see the name?  sure didnt work with me.

Answer 2

No, unless shes insecure.

Answer 3

Personally, my guess is that even if the major proportion of answers denied your assertion, then you'd still not believe the answer(s.

> Rhett not Brett, it was the servants who cooked the breakfast, are those the best you folks can come up with? You still haven't denied, women LOVE being put in their place and TAMED.  <

The above rhetort and the last line, tends to demoinstrate my ascertion here.

With that said, as the lyrics of the song explain...........

Some do,

some don't,

some will and

some won't......

If you are foolish enough to believe the simplicity of the fairytale you propose here, then 'lang me yea lum reek', lad  (= 'long may your chimney smoke').

(Paint all with the same colour n brush, and you grant everyone else the same right too).

Sash.

Answer 4

I think in ancient history this was fashionable. Male dominance runs rampant in most religions and men love to think they are powerful and can justify abuse. But this notion is outdated at the very least.  Around the 1960s women started getting smarter and demanding respect. I think the only ignorant women who approve of this sort of treatment are the extremely religious who still feel women are on earth just to serve men and the men in these religions love the power so I guess it works for them.  These are stupid people still living in the Dark Ages. Who was that woman who cut off her husbands p***s after getting tired of his abuse? Now she knew what she was doing... I think most men will find respect and kindness are much more valued by women these days than dominance and "taming."

P.S. His name was Rhett, not Brett.

Answer 5

Nice guys do dominate they make the choice to be nice, so be nice back!

Answer 6

sometimes.....depends

for you yes ;)

Answer 7

Yes, and she doesn't spend the rest of the film/book being basically more interested in another man at all....... Plus, it's pretend. Like using Harry Potter to justify boarding schools.

No, most women do not want a man to slap them. Most do not want to be dominated (100% of the time, anyway). And many like men who care for them and are well mannered (the Gentlemanly type - think Mr Darcy, if we're going fictional)

Answer 8

What do you know about women, aren,t you too busy Jacking Hoff, you always ask asinine questions and you don,t seem to have a social life as you spend all your time on Y/A being somewhat repulsive, there,s a life out there and people are involved in fun  pursuits and other form of relaxation and self improvement not obsessing about things you don,t know about. If you are that bored, go join a right wing organisation as you will easily qualify for membership and then you can devote yourself fully to writing and enquiring about your particular type of bigotry and prejudices.

Answer 9

Gone with the Wind is pretend.

Answer 10

I think you're a semi-closeted battering rapist. Thanks for sharing. Please stay home or let us know where you live and when you next plan to "tame" a woman so we can contact the local police. Women are not safe unless men who think like you are carefully watched and eventually committed to an institution permanently.

Answer 11

AWWWW don't let women fool ya. We all have had a secret fantasy about a man desiring us so much they just 'take' what they want, in a lusty, dirty kind of way.  I am not talking about slapping, hitting or raping, just a good ole, shut up woman, I am going to have you because I know you want me just as much. Women today have become so 'unfeminine' and 'spiteful'. Men have become lazy and unemployed. Too much violence and not enough love.  What have we become?

Answer 12

Not me.  I would tell them to hit the door...and don't let it hit your backside on the way out..............

Answer 13

diffrent things for diffrent women

Answer 14

The answers to these questions are simple

A man just has to be a man, and most modern men cant be that while worrying about what women think.

Example: on the soap operas on TV all the so called men are just a bunch of girls in trousers, its written that way on purpose.

Also when I did a job delivering water some years ago, all the workers found that we were the main attraction in the offices in the city, which was strange to us

The women acted like they were relieved to see a man at last, even though people that looked like men to our eyes surrounded them, but to the women they don’t fit the job. (You can do your own straw poll on this one, should be easy enough, just use a call centre, or any local office)

So think about this, we have some very strong Women in our society, and ARE they actually looking for weak Men? NO they are not!!

But like with most things surrounding the world of Women, we all know the way things are, but MUST always pretend we don’t, or have not noticed

Women are equal! Right. Yes, good

Now if you see something that would make you question this, you look away.

You diddent’ see nothing. That’s the way it is. OK

Ps: Your analogy would look wrong to a woman, as they don’t see ‘sex’ as the end product, so can’t usually have s*x for s*x sake, and will HATE with a passion any other Woman who even hints at the idea, (will be named & called Wh***, B***h, S**ts etc)

Women idea of s*x is as a means to get ‘LOVE’, so if you are talking s*x to a woman, they are hearing something entirely different. (It is rare indeed that a man can say to a woman in the supermarket, “Hi I’m Jack, how are you, what’s your name? Ok. Fine. Let go F**K”) yea, YOU WISH!!!!!!!

If a Woman Believes, or makes herself believes she can get endless love from you at the beginning of the relationship, she will ‘f**k your brains out.

in most cases its not so later, it never last past the level of the love they think you have to give.

BE WARNED!!!

Answer 15

i let my girlfriend were the trousers, shes the boss n she knows it lol i let her b in control, who says male have to b dominat

Answer 16

ok listen...a girl will absolutly hate it if a guy slapped her or hurt her in anyway! i should know coz i am a girl! i mean if a guy punched his wife she wouldnt go around worship him singing prayers she would hate,despise and be afraid of him thats why she will never tell the police at first that she gets ABUSED by her hubby! then she will and he will get in so much trouble by the cops and when girls say they like a guy who tames them means that he dosnt act lie a push  over every single miniute it dosnt mean she wants a guy 2 beat her kk? anyways now i hope u know! lol x*x

Answer 17

The inside line is she behaved better the next day.

Answer 18

"women LOVE being put in their place and TAMED."

You'll probably find, once you actually meet a girl, that this isn't the case. Try not to touch her, though, once you meet her. Her reaction will probably frazzle your fragile self-confidence.

Answer 19

Shouldnt it be other way around?

Answer 20

no, i would never go out with a man that tried to 'tame' me. this is a form of manipulation. he would very soon find himself dumped! what a ridiculous question

Answer 21

Umm, no.  That's abuse.  If a girl is being a ***** to you, you don't need her.  Move on.

Answer 22

I think you have misremembered Gone With the Wind.

Rhett carries Scarlett upstairs but he doesn't slap her.  And we are not shown their lovemaking, that is left to the imagination.  Scarlett certainly seems to be in a good mood the next morning, but she doesn't make Rhett breakfast, they have servants to do that.  And anyway, he blows it all by coming in and being unpleasant to her, he throws away the advantage he has gained.

Some women do like a man to be dominant, others do not.  And there is no reason why a man cannot be nice and dominant, the two things are not mutually exclusive.  'Dominant' need not mean being unpleasant.

Answer 23

I like a man who can voice his opinions, but not push me around, tell me what to do, or make me feel like I'm beneath him.  I like a man who will tell me when he thinks I'm wrong, and tell me why and offer his opinion and/or solution to better myself.  I wouldn't want someone who always agree or disagree with me.

Answer 24

Despite the fact that time has passed and somethings have changed, women do like that men tame them. Maybe not slapping them, or "Riding them like a horse" (lol), but they still do like that. Where I rest my case you ask? in the fact that, what women want, on most ocassions, is a cute guy, that treats them like c**p.

By c**p I don´t mean beating her or insulting her. Just to show her who is the boss, and take the decisions, when required.

They deny it, but can´t really help it, it´s how they´re wired. Deal with it.

Answer 25

:$ Well, I myself prefer the guy to take all control, but some girls like freedom.

Try testing the waters, try being more in control at times, see how she responds?

And try being the nice guy:)

Sometimes a mix :)

Be kind but show passion for choices you make for you both :)

x hope ive helped :)

Answer 26

What a daft thing to think! If you think all women are Stepford wives then yes!!! We are all different, just as men are. I wouldn't feel comfortable with a man being dominant like that, after all, I'M in charge! That's an antiquated view.

Answer 27

Dude have you read my avatar name? If any guy does that to me I would become the heir of Satan. The h**l with breakfast! =3 Besides I like nice guys.

Answer 28

No, women are not dogs.  We like nice people

Answer 29

NOPE we do not like being tamed we hold the whip not men. men do not ride women like horses that is offensive and dehumanising we are not animals and would not like to be treated as such. AND if a man ever slaps a woman she should be out the door before he can say sorry that is domestic violence and is not appreciated in a feminist society.