Do You Consider This Abuse??

Question

My mother has always had my older brother as her favorite. And once I turned about 5 or 6 - she started to be very "strict". I remember this time where I accidently spilt my juice on the carpet and she spanked me and told me to go to my room. I sat in my room and cried because she hit me so hard - so she came in and slapped me hard in the side of the face. I was probably about 7 at the time.

Now I am 11 and it is still happening. I am in my room right now because she slapped me REALLY hard on the shoulder because I put my clothers in my dresser, NOT in my closet. I am in here because after that I said "Who cares, they are just clothes" and she sent me up here.

The thing is - that it happens almost every day - and the only time it doesn't happen is when my brother or my dad are around. I just don't get it ... I never do anything seriously wrong. If my brother gets a speeding ticket on his car - she pays it off and tells him it is okay - but if there is a school trip that costs $20, she won't give me the money and I have to go to my dad. It is only my dad and brother that ever believe me too - nobody else does. I am obviously jealous of my brother - because he lives with everything he ever wants - when I don't get anything I want. And my mom always tries to buy stuff so I don't mention it to my dad - but I still do. She once took us to Wonderland so I could say I had fun - but I hated everything because she made me do the really scary rides when I wanted to do things like bumper cars and the ghoster coaster.

Please give me your opinions on this - I don't get it...

Answer 1

yes...

Answer 2

First of all, it is never okay to be hit by someone. If this is an on-going thing, then you need to start taking pictures if you can so you have evidence. You will need to go to someone. You can not let this go on. It isn't getting any better for you. Talking to your mom about any of this is not an option. If you say your dad knows whats going on, why isn't he stepping in? You need to get some help here. Please don't let her do this to you any more.

Answer 3

yeah she's abusive

Answer 4

Yes I believe it is. I think you should talk on the phone to someone really loud like a friend or family member about this. Loud enough so she can hear. Then maybe she will get scared and realize what she's doing. It might work.

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ALSO TAKE A STAND. BE STRONG GOD BLESS YOU I KNOW HOW BAD IT FEELS TO BE ABUSED MENATLLY EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLLY.

Answer 5

Let your father see this post.  He can't do anything about it if does not know.  Take pictures and document (date and excuse for hitting you).

Learn to stand up for yourself... when she said  you had to go on a scary ride scream and make a scene so others will see.

She has anger issues that need to be address by other adults that are close to you.

Good Luck

Answer 6

yes, it is...your mother needs help.