Do You Think I Was Too Young And What Is A Good Name?

Question

Im 19 years old and I'm married to a beautiful women named Kahlen who is also 19. We got married 1 year ago and our parents thought that we were too young. I don't think so. But ever time someone finds out that we are married they are surprised by how young we are. We love each other more than ever and we are both in college. My wife is expecting our first child in November. So do you think that we were to young when we got married. Also what is a good name for our comming daughter. Im white american and my wife wife is from russia. And no, i married her before she got pregnant and no she wasn't a mail order bride shes been living in the US for 3 years.

Answer 1

First reaction is yes you were too young but second thoughts after reading the rest of your question I dont believe you are. You obviously love each other very much, just keep the great marriage going and prove everyone else wrong!

Answer 2

If you two know what you want in life, then I say s***w what everyone else thinks. You two seem to have your priorities in order. Congrats on the marriage and the baby. As far as girl names, try www.babynames.com and you two should be the ones to pick the name for your child together. Good Luck!

Answer 3

yep, you were too young to get married, and waaay too young to have kids.

On the plus side, she's not American, so the traditional values thing mught work in our favor.

Answer 4

Well...this sounds an awful lot like my marriage, without the baby fortunately.  Um, I'm going to be straight about it...young marriages don't last alot of the time.  I was there, believe me!  I was with him for 4 years since we were 16 and we got married when we were 20.  We were best friends, trusted eachother, loved eachother to death and couldn't ever imagine us not being together.  We had goals and dreams to finish school, be financially and emotionally stable...then have children.  Well, as soon as were turned 21, it all went downhill.  He discovered bars and alcohol, went partying all the time, girls were all over him and knew he was married (they like that about guys, sort of a trophy to them when they get them in bed :( Well, about 2 years later, after he moved out on me twice, I found out he really did cheat on me, became an alcoholic, I filed for divorce.  I couldn't stand it anymore, even though everytime he said he would change and he loved me so much.  If you really want it to work, keep your relationship dynamic, don't let it go stale.  Love that baby like there is no tomorrow, but love your wife too, never neglect her.  You got married, now you have to man up and make it work.  Trust, communication, and love are key.  Don't be a statistic like me.  I have faith in you guys.  And a beautiful name for a daughter is Bella or maybe Braelynn.  I like B names :)

Answer 5

I think if you two are in love it's fine! It may be surprising to many people, but they don't know your relationship.

Congrats on all accounts. Don't quite school for your child! You two can do it!

I would google "Russian Baby Names." Then you can pick out your own. I like Russian names, and I guess that fits you two. :)

Good luck!

Answer 6

i agree with linda

Answer 7

I think that as long as you love eachother that your age shouldn't be an issue. I think that the only age thing that you'll have to worry about is having a baby while you are in college. I wish you luck and hopefully you'll be able to finish school and start your family at the same time.

Answer 8

Don't think about what others think. As long as you two are happy, that is all that matters. Why try to please the world when you have each other, whom love one another dearly. Glad to hear your expecting your first child too, children are such a gift to have, and watching them grow from babies to toddlers, to rugrats, etc, you get the point though. I'm happy for the both of you. Names, I think are good would be:  Victoria, Serena, Angelica, Gabrielle, Anastasia, or Mary Ellen. I know, there are many to choose from. Happy thoughts to you two, soon to be three---  ;-)  .

Answer 9

Ive always liked Darby or Emily for girls names

Answer 10

I wish you the best. So prove everyone wrong and have a long happy marriage.

Linda