Do anti-Feminist men make good husbands?

Question

I can see some good qualities in the men who are against Feminism, but it seems as though they are being sucked into only a bias view of Feminism to the point where some anti-Feminist men begin to despise women as well. It appears hatred begets hatred. Would they make a good husband or even boyfriend?

Answer 1

Yes.

Answer 2

Well I meet with a feminist at the weekends, she "kicks ***" and that is one of the reasons she is not allowed to see me mid week. She does not call a plumber, she calls "a little man", she becomes agitated when things don't go her way and is always at war with one employee or another.

What I do with her is keep rules for acceptable behavior, give her various tests and punishments leading to an eventual reward for her good behavior, by Sunday she will do whatever I ask without question.

I believe I'm doing a good job with this one.

; )

I thought all the male anti feminists were on marriage strike anyway?

Sam, you knew I'd be hurt by that but you said it anyway, didn't you?

No Sam, way off the mark, I don't abuse those around me or have any desire to, I see whats happened here, I was taking about another feminist and you became angry and lashed out,.I am sorry and I will try to be more considerate. Hope you are well           ; )

Answer 3

I wouldn't want one.  But then, I didn't get one.  Thank God.

Answer 4

I am anti-feminist because of political and philosophical differences from feminists. These difference don't make me a woman hater.

I'd consider John Edwards to be a feminist and he cheated on his wife while she had cancer. Is that what feminists are looking for? A man that will abandon them when they need support the most. I'd also say that Bill Clinton is a feminist. He cheated on his wife. The more liberal the man, the more hedonistic and corrupt they are. Not that moderates and conservatives are perfect, because they aren't, they have more of a moral compass. It seems like feminists look for jerks so they can continue to play the victim.

Answer 5

Not for me.  In order to be anti-feminist, he would have to either

1) Not believe in equality for men and women.  Maybe he really does think the man is automatically supposed to be the head of the household, or women shouldn't have careers outside the home if they want to.

or

2) Believe that feminists don't really want equality.

Either way, I feel we would be incompatible.  In the first case, we would royally p**s each other off, and in the second case, we would just get on each other's nerves too much.

Answer 6

It seems that personal agenda's lend to what "ism" people choose to partake, not the opposite. So I would say that a good hearted well intentioned "anti-feminist" would be just as worthy as a good hearted well intentioned "pro-feminist"

Answer 7

No, it just shows they are good at critical thinking. And by the way I believe women should have equal rights, same opportunities as men. But I view feminist theory as biased archaic diatribe - though some of it's alright.

Answer 8

Get back in the kitchen Julia!  What did I tell you about touching the computer!  These things are too advanced for you.

Answer 9

This is a difficult question to answer without having a definition or description of an "anti-feminist man".  Is this a man who rejects feminism or one who actively opposes feminist dialog?  I've become so confused in recent times as to the defintion of feminism I find it impossible to imagine an "anti-feminist".   I tend to ignore conversations about feminism but I am guessing that doesn't make me "anti" anything.    

Answer 10

they make the best husbands because they put you where you belong, making him sandwiches and deliciouses baked goods, such as pies. he will also right you when you've gone astray, doing something as crazy as leaving the kitchen.

Answer 11

Yes, I think I would :-D

Answer 12

This is impossible since anti-feminists don't support our lovely philosophy of promoting and advancing love and loveliness and loving kindness and love of life and love of the unborn and love of everything on the planet.  I don't understand how someone who opposes our loving ways could possibly be a good husband for we so loving, so sweet.  We are pure angels.

Answer 13

Girls, have you ever heard that comment by your friends when you met your husband/partner.... "Ow, keep him, he's a good one!"

They don't say that about sexist pigs.



  

Answer 14

Of course they do.  Not only will they stand up for my rights and beliefs, but they wont be bullied into giving up their own.  Strength and compassion.....What's not to love?

Answer 15

Us anti-feminist women make good wives.  That, of course is my opinion.  We love our husbands enough that we don't allow them to get away with very much. We most definitely speak our minds; I know I do.   Isn't this so sweet we're picking each other like civilized adults.   Tee hee all the way.

Answer 16

To a nice sweet lady, yes.  To a man-hating feminist, no.

Answer 17

"Would they make a good husband or even boyfriend?"

In my opinion, they don't even make good trash collectors. (My trash collector is a very enlightened guy, by the way.)

Answer 18

I don't know about a 'good' husband, but they might be compatible with a doormat wife. For anyone else I think they would be too controlling, even the 'nicer' ones. I'm an adult woman and I don't need another father.

betty jennings - good point. I don't need an adult boy child either. Or a cross between a boy child - father. Eek.

eoghan - if you're not controlling yourself, why would this upset you?

Answer 19

well i think everyone is confusing anti-feminists with male chauvinists  

Answer 20

Yes, I have a wonderful husband. As a matter of fact, he is such a good husband that if he were to die right now I would never re-marry or date for that matter because no other man would ever be able to live up to him. I dont think anyone could love me as much as he does. He is anti-feminist.

Answer 21

The anti-feminist men I've met were rotten husbands. They were childish and demanding and selfish. They were just another child for their wife to take care of. But I've definitely met some feminist husbands who weren't prizes either. It depends on the man.