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Do beautiful women possess more insecurities than...?

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an averagely pretty woman who thinks she is the cat's meow? I'm asking because I see celebrity women (ie-Princess Diana, Halle Berry, etc.) who are beautiful yet many contain/have contained major insecurities w/in their lives. Do you think that this tends to happen only w/ above average beautiful women or with average pretty women who are just confident & have a positive self-esteem.

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  1. no, i don't think there is any correlation between the two.  insecurites has more to do with feeling like you don't measure up to others.

    i think that princess Di and other beautiful famous people possess insecurities because they were and on display for the world to see.  princess Di had to always look her best for pictures, she had people looking up to her. when people hold you up to a high standard like that, its really hard to feel like you are as great as people say.


  2. Teaching teenage girls has given me some insight, especially from the girls directly.  Many of the prettyir girls know that they have the looks, but they also have a deep concern, in some cases, that their looks cannot get them through life forever.  It is well known that both men and women generally respond more positively to pretty people of both sexes.

    Positive seld esteem requires greater depth of character than can be constructed through looks alone: looks do not connote intelligence, character or any other valued quality, and these are the factirs that make quality personalities.  Beauty is also no protection against lifes troubles either, especially if the woman (and some men do this too) relied on their look to get by and often to boost their ego.

    With celebrities, there is a use-by date for many of them as the women's magazines report on every facial crease or sign og aging.  Whether beautiful women posess more insecurities is open to conjecture, but I think they might: and it is often the fault of the people who surround them and due to a lack of effort in building their own character: the focu was always on looks.  I know many intelligent, articulate and beautiful women, and they don't seem lacking in self assurance.

  3. No evidence for this.  If anything, the reverse is probably true.

  4. I think most people who think highly of themselves are not very confident at all.  It's an act and they want you to think they are better.  it's just how they feel better about themselves.  

  5. It is them mentally

  6. I think prettier women are more insecure because they are used to people looking at them all the time and judging them based on their looks. Younger women are also more insecure as security often comes with age. Thank god.

  7. Beautiful women with insecurities just stand out more because you don't expect it. Why would a beautiful women be insecure? Because daily life is not all about how you look.

    And Gold Digger should be insecure with writing like that. It looks like the work of a five year old.

  8. I think beauty has nothing to do with insecurities. Insecurities come from the inside. Nobody in this life is exempt from human feelings, problems, trials & tribulations.  

  9. I think all us women have terrible insecurities but we tend to notice the insecurities of the beautiful women more because they seem so ridiculous and unreasonable.

  10. No such thing as a beautful women but beatuful men yes.

    So don't worry yourself love.....wait little Timmy needs to be changed am such a good little lady  

  11. The average pretty woman is comfortable with her being pretty, therefore accepts herself more than non pretty women do.

    Anything that you know that looks good on you, makes you feel better therefore makes u have more self esteem.

    What happens to celebrities is that even tho they have everything, they have no one.

    No one truly loves them...they're family is probably weird or in drugs....everyone loves only their bodies....nobody loves them. So they feel like trash.


  12. no, the thing is that they are still women, who have the same mentality of wanting to be just perfect to please ourselves and the people in our lives.


  13. Just about anyone can be riddled with insecurities, regardless of what they look like. True strength comes from within.

  14. Beautiful possess the great balance in life.

    No, they are just pretty.

  15. depends on what situations we go through.insecurity isnt something that comes form the sky. its something that we feel when we are confused about who we are and our worth :)

  16. I think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder meaning beauty means many things to different people.

    I am a large size woman and I am working on my health and wellness and appearance. I hold my head up high when I walk and not put my head down anymore when people walk by. I am getting my hair done new undergarments and working on a skin regimin.

    Being a christian has helped me to love others which I think makes a woman beautiful and attractive.

    But honestly it is all about attitude and outlook, I know someone who is a little too obssesed with her looks and weight she is a great person but constantly says am I fat? Does my bathingsuit looks good? Am I pretty? Dont you like my outlook. When you look to the interests of others and genuinely help others being self absorbed becomes less and less.

    Your insides relfect your outsides what you feel inside and how you treat people shows up on your face and persona. I could wake up every morning and say oh c**p its 4:30 got to take the old man to work this $ucks.

    Or I could say at least I have a husband who cares enough and respect himself and me to want to work what really $ucks when you have nothing to live for and no one to love.

    I will say this looks come and go fashions come and fashion goes weight comes on weight comes off and sometimes comes on again the colors that are in style this year may be outdated the next.

    but the TRUTH is people can tell if you are comfortable with your self and if you are a secure person and not overly needy that is what makes a woman truly attractive and looks have little or nothing to do with it. When you radiate or shine with joy,love, peace and contentment THAT is a very wonderful find in a woman. Nothing wrong with enhancing your looks I am in the process of doing that now but there is more to life than what shampoo you use and what lipstick you wear.

    I have taken up a lot of time thank you for this question but a really confident woman is this a woman who kneels in prayer and trusts God can stand up to anything.

  17. No, I don't think that's necessarily true.  I think lots of women suffer from lack of confidence and low self-esteem, regardless of their attractiveness.


  18. no...  im not insecure...  i feel gud an confedent in myself...  i think average looking girls feel more insecur...

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