Do black women really want to control their men? or is American Society pressing the issue

Question

black women say they need to control their men and when they do they call him weak and have a desire to find a real man. so do they really want control or is american society telling them to do so.

Answer 1

All women want to control men full stop

Race isn't any different  

Answer 2

......all women at heat want to control their men,

    the black women are no exception to this, they too want them in their control fro m running around other women.

Answer 3

they want to control because they can't handle their men being the boss.