Do drunk actions really speak sober thoughts?

Question

Well, I'm 14 and not trying to sound conceited, but I've been told by a lot of guys I'm attractive.. I have a crush on one of my brother's friends who is 21, & he definitely knows it! I've known him my whole life and he's a really good guy -- Valedictorian, helps teach a Sunday school class, voted Mr. Byrd High School, an Aerospace Engineering major, he was starting running back his senior year, and even with all of that he somehow has a hard time getting the ladies.. I'm shy, so we don't talk much, but I always catch him looking at me from a distance and he always looks away really quickly after I see him.. Whenever we walk by each other he purposely avoids my glance, but when he starts drinking it's another thing.. Every time I see him drunk, I always catch him smiling and staring at me until I say something or he starts talking to me.. & no I'm not going for a relationship, so don't lecture me on that, I just think he's cute and a great guy. What's going on in his head?

Answer 1

He does all that and he drinks?  Man that kinda sucks.  Yeah people can be total jerks when they drink and... yeah, a lot of times, whatever there holding back when there sober comes out when there drinking cause they become drunk to notice.  But I think he might like you or it's him being drunk and stupid.  It's amazing what the alcohol can do... isn't it?  

Answer 2

When you drink you experience a feeling of invincibility,," nothing can happen to you" This guy knows how wrong it would be to "get" with you because under the law he would be a s*x offender and put in jail, even if you said it was ok,  So he stays away from you,, however when he drinks,, he gets these thoughts about how it would be ok because you want it and nobody would find out,, eventually he will try to 'get' with you,, the thing is ,, this will be found out , it always comes out, and he will go to jail, and you may very well end up pregnant,, so stay clear no matter how good and nice he is,, temptation is something that is hard to resist especially when drinking is involved    Good Luck

Answer 3

hes too old. wait 5 more years :-)

Answer 4

I do think that people do things when they're drunk that they don't have the courage to do when they're sober.  That does not necessarily mean he actually cares for you, though.  He might just want to "get some."  

Answer 5

what's going on in his adult head might be too much for your 14 yr old brain and body. leave it alone! he's way too old to be looking at you in that manner and it's just a bad situation waiting to happen. i know it may be flattering to have a guy like him notice you but you have a lot of growing up to do and once you get a little more age and experience under your belt, you'll look back at this and he'll be considered a PERVERT!  

Answer 6

He wants to get some from you thats all