Do girls expect an erection when they sit on a guys lap?

Question

Well, I ran into a little scenario where a girl (I think she likes me) sat on my lap.... And with that pressure, its impossible to not get an erection. I have no clue if she expected it, or is mad at me =(

What should I do?

Answer 1

no self control????

Answer 2

no not necessarily. i dont think it's necessarily a bad thing though. usually when a girl is sitting on your lap and she likes you it's because she just wants to be close to you. and i think it's stupid if a girl expects a guy to get an erection from something like that.

Answer 3

lol usually no, unless she's grinding on you or something, I don't know, hehe, hope this helps

Answer 4

I guess you can't help it, but whether she liked it or not, what was her reaction?  That should be your answer.

Answer 5

i wouldnt expect that.. if she confronts you on it  tell her that her pressure  set you off  how can she be ma at you for having a natural body function?

Answer 6

Lol, I'd probably laugh, unless there were people around...then I'd just sorta shift my weight to keep it from getting embarrassing.

I don't see why she'd be mad. Don't guys get a lot of erections every day? It's only normal.

Oh man, my friend's bf was doing a men's dance routine at a pep rally, and, well...not a good time for him. The poor guy had to deal with a very noticable one in front of a 1500 person audience...so, it could be worse!!! I feel bad for you guys in that respect, because when guys sit on my lap (which they rarely do for some odd reason), I don't have to worry about it obviously.

Just say that, if she's upset, you're sorry and didn't mean anything by it...she should understand.

Answer 7

ew.

Answer 8

durrr!! why do you think strippers give lap dances? they probably wonder if you even have a p***s? or is it just small?

Answer 9

Holly cra*. I don't think she expected it. Give her some time now to just gather her thoughts and realize what just happened. you must act the way you acted before though. Otherwise you'll create an awkard situation for both of you.

Answer 10

only if i'm naked