Do girls like it when guys play the "always in demand" mind game?

Question

I was told that you should never be too available to a girl. That you should only hang out with her during the week, not the weekends, so you can make her think that you're busy doing other things. I was told that you want to keep her guessing, that women like competition. You want her to think, "is he out with another girl?" Is this true? Do girls really like it when guys play the "always in demand" mind games?

Answer 1

Some might. But that game can also be played by females too. And after a while it gets old and we lose interest. So play at your own risk.

Answer 2

NO. they want you all to themselves. you think a girl being paranoid is fun for them?...wow.

Answer 3

No, because it shows you really are not that serious and just want to play the field. It makes you appear shallow, and i personally will not waste my time by chasing a man around.

Answer 4

Seriously, don't even try to play games. It's just a set-up for disaster.

Plus, I don't know many girls who would go for a guy that's never around- it's actually a turn-off. If a girl is thinking you're never there, or if you hint at the fact you're out with other girls, it'll be tough for her to trust you to be there (physically there and there to support her) if you end up being in a relationship.

Don't even bother, this is a huge misconception among guys. Don't be available 24/7, but don't make it a habit to be gone all the time either. It's all about balance. :D

Answer 5

I personally hate it when guys do that. It makes me think I need to move on, and then I end up going out, or getting over the guy when they ask me out.

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Answer 6

yes and no. It frusterates us because we aren't sure if you like us or not

Answer 7

I don't, if I thought he was dating other girls and always really busy I wouldn't bother with him and I'd move on. If I wanted to get serious with him I'd think that he'd be too busy to have a serious relationship.

Answer 8

No. If a guy is like that then it makes me think that he's too busy for me and he doesn't like me that much to try to spend time with me over the weekend. I'll probably give up, forget, move on and lose interest him in.