Do girls prefer to be told what to do in bed or just to be handled?

Question

I don't want to say too much, just point her in the right direction...should I lift and turn her or tell her what I want her to do?

Answer 1

You should ask her and find out what she likes. You don't want to do one thing and make her uncomfortable or whatever. So just ask what she'd prefer.  

Answer 2

Most girls love to be controlled in bed.  Just ask her to flip over in mid pumping and see what she does/

Answer 3

combination buddy!!! communicate as well!!

Answer 4

always ask, never assume.

Answer 5

For me both are big turn ons it depends on the night/day. I do like instructions, It is hot. I like to be submissive and the instructions just do it for me. Of course i have been with the same man like 6 years and we talk about what we like in bed and we trust eachother.

Answer 6

Depends on the personality of your partner and how intense the mood is. You should ask her what she likes. Personally, I like to be surprised. Makes it that much more fun.

Answer 7

i love be handle don't tell her what to do just do your job  

Answer 8

if you don't tell she will not know what turns you on. you would want her to tell you what turns her on. say it like this" i like it when you do it this way it really turns me on" she will get the hint and then you will have solved your problem