Do guys like 'good girls' ? highschoolers only please :]?

Question

Seriously, I don't want any adults or middle schoolers answering this.

Okay well, I am a sophmore in highschool. I've never had s*x (wanna wait till im married :] ) i've never tried alcohol, I don't really go to parties, my idea of an adventure is trespassing onto private property so its dull huh. I'm not a school nerd or anything, I have a life! I hang out with the 'popular' crowd lol, and I'm very pretty, but sometimes i feel like i dont fit in or i feel pressured because I have not drank, or deeply made out with anyone or have a bunch of disputes over which guys i should date. Does it really matter to guys how 'experienced' you are or the 'naughty' thing's youve done? Because I feel so far behind on all of that. Not that thats something i really want to do, but I mean does it really matter? Is it a turn off or something?

Answer 1

Even if guys find "naughty" girls hot, the right man will respect the choices you are making and will develop a deep, long lasting love for you.

I was a virgin until my wedding night, still don't really drink, and I married the most incredible man! (he is really hot too :) Hang in there, it is worth the wait!

Answer 2

Actually, i think that clean girls are a turn ON. i hate in when girls are like "omg s*x last night was great!" or like "omg i got so drunk last night". to me thats the hugest turn off. i like my girls clean... =)

oh btw...imma sophomore too!

-kai

Answer 3

I personally like girls that are good, and not naughty, bc the girls that are good seem more mature and beautiful to me i know alot of guys like naughty girls but that's only bc they think it is easy to get in there pants, i think your way smart for waiting tell your married :)

Answer 4

idk since i'm not a guy but im a sophomore too. & i'm waiting until marriage b/c it should only be shared if you guys are serious enough to commit to each other, you know? :]

it's not dull at all. don't give into the pressure. :[

Answer 5

Im a freshman and guys like jocks only hang out with cool girls that is also funny and athletical. Popular guys likes to hang out with popular girls, but if you hang out with populars people doesnt mean they like you....well as a friend maybe.Basically all im saying is that popular people like people with a good personality and humorous. You know

, i like it when i make jokes and the girls laugh, that make me feel closer to them but only one like you truely are to scared to expose it.!

Guys also like girls who have a similiar personality as themselves. So somewhere in this world there one who fit you!And yes if the is naughty they would love naughty girls as well!

Answer 6

sweatheart first and fourmost if a guy cares about how experienced u are you two must be in a movie ahah

like honestly guys like virgins or girl who arent "kickin" it 24 7

me i have dont drinking, s*x, ect, mmm yeah it fun BUT  it aint all that

i quit all that **** because to me there is noooo point anymore.

dont worry about anything but your school

just be flirty and have fun kissing (: ahaa have a shirly temple and call it a night! atleast this is what i am trying out

Answer 7

Yes they do but it depends on what guy. i like good girls because i can trust them more and they tend to be easy to  so feelings and s*x aint that important so dnt worry

Answer 8

Your my type of girl. BTW it's better to be yourself then to be a stereotype.

Answer 9

I wouldnt worry about it. Most guys are only out for one thing only.

I am in the 10th grade and im pregnant. Im due in feb. I really wouldnt stress what guys want at this point in your life. This is the time you have, to just have fun with your friends and experiance your teen years.

I really thank that its good you want to wait until your married. Me and my boyfriend went to a party one night and I got drunk and he got drunk 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. It was my first time having s*x. So its kind of good that you don't drink. Cause somtimes things happen and you don't even remember much of it.

It shouldn't be a turn off to a guy, but the way guys are today. Thats all most of them want is to have s*x and leave. So do what you think is right. Don't worry about what other people think. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. Good Luck!

Answer 10

I am pretty much the same way, and a lot of guys wouldn't date me, not because of me not drinking, but because they knew it wouldn't go any further than kissing. I figure sooner or later I'll find a guy who appreciates my decisions.

Answer 11

In high school, from my experience only, there are the guys who like easy girls, because they know they can get laid and then there are the guys who like to try to get in the good girls pants and tell there friends about it the next day.  It isn't a turn off, it is just htat high school boys are so horny and have somthign to prove.  Most guys truly do want a girl that is honest, tru to herself and will do her own thing, regarless of what everyone else is doing!  You sound like an awesome girl and I dont htink that you should feel awkward or behind!  I am so happy that you are one of the only girls on here asking something other then " I am pregnant?"  

Answer 12

Its all about how you carry yourself, your confidence and such; being comfortable in your own skin. There are the guys who act like jerks just wanting s*x, but you don't want them right? be yourself , it sounds cliche but its true, people would appreciate you more and respect you for standing by your beliefs.

Answer 13

I don't know, depends on the guy. My guy friends go to different school from 3 years now, but we hang out after school like... everyday nearly! and they are really evil to the teachers, no good boys at all ¬.¬ but they have great grades. I'm an uber-all goodie goodie. And when I'm going to coeducational schools (at the moment I'm going to the girls school that I have been into twice), I often hear that guys from popular crowd have a crush on me, but I ignore it because they don't even talk to me so it's either not truth or all they want is my look. I'm bit pretty, and a nice girl to people who I can open up with because I'm quiet shy, so when I get annoyed or closed up I can be very mean and that's what turns them off straight away.

I never done anything bad either, I'm a goodie goodie nerd at school (nerds and geeks untie to take over the world!), I egt year 11 work from IT because I do our year 9 in 2 minutes ¬.¬ yeah, I know... weirdo.

Don't feel behind! there are guys who like girls who keep their legs closed and know what they want and what they don't. If the guy is worth it, he will respect your choices and beliefs.

:) Watch out, don't spoil it for yourself. My knight in shiny armour turned out to be an idiot in aluminium foil, and I still love him ^.^

Answer 14

Please don`t feel far Behind. They are the ones that are far ahead. Don`t think about it and don`t worry, you are the Smarter of your Generation for your choices. (witch are some good ones). Bad Boys tend to Manipulate Girls like you. DON`T LET `EM! Stick with the game, and you`ll be fine! Popularity, Guys, s*x, and things like that shouldn`t matter to you. I am 17 years old by the way. Good Luck with High School!  - Rebecca.

Answer 15

yes they do

it is cool that you haven't had s*x

"not many girls that can admit to that these days

i'm a senior in high school and i havent had s*x yet either

if you can wait until marriage that is a great thing a  really great thing thats that's that you like to go trespass i have too  it is better than getting drunk and better than doing drugs and it is just so much fun

put school first and heck with what the guys like or want good luck

Answer 16

i'm 20 an adult i'm gonna answer anyway mostly because you told me not to

but, they do say bad boys go for good girls, and i've seen this my cousins all bad boys most of there girlfriends have been good girls...but then again it could be because there trying to take advantage of then soo..but it actually depends every guy is different and likes a different kind of girl

Answer 17

im a sophomore too.

and plan to wait too.

but i have drank alcohol(not drunk)

my school is small.

and everyone pretty much hangs out together.

but my group doesnt most of the people are sorta emo but not the weird kind. the girls are girly but not like me and my main squeeze. haa.

ive never had a bf :(

but some guys like that.

some like wild girls.

it depends the guy.

i wish i had friends that are more like me.  my main squeeze doesnt do much with me. like she doesnt want to go to a teen club.

so i wish i had a friend more like me.  but people think i am shy.

i talk alot as you can see but i dont like talking to people i dont really know or in front of people.

in my gropup i am like talking the most but yeah.

Answer 18

a******s like to take advantage of good girls.

But nice guys will like you for you :D

Answer 19

Be who you are, and don't let what other people say change that. If there is some guy that wants  you to be different, he's not a guy you want to be with. If you are a sophomore you shouldn't be drinking, and if you don't want to have s*x till your married why tempt yourself by making out with some random guy just because other people do?  

High school sucks and people are mean.... the only way you'll survive is if you stay true to who you are. It may seem stupid now, but I promise when you look back, you'll be happy you did.

Answer 20

you sound exactly like a girl i know. im sorry for the short answer but im a little strethed for time at the moment. email me if ya want because i think i know exactly what your asking and i could probably give ya a prettygood idea about what us highschool guys are looking for.

Answer 21

Personally, I am just like what you described yourself to be. I prefer a good girl but the thing is, is that the majority of men I have seen prefer girls that stand out because of a usual trait (most of the time bad trait i.e. heavy drinker). Most likely though you will not find guys who share the same self-discipline level that you have acquired.  

Answer 22

It all depends on the type of guys you talk to. There are some guys who don't care about how experienced you are...and some guys who are s*x feens just want "freaks" those are the guys you want to stay away from if you want to wait till marriage :)

Answer 23

I'm sorry little one [I'm not in school], but can commend you and say "way to go, Keep it up",sorry I didn't read all of what you wrote about adults answering this. All I was going to say was, you are quite right, keep believing in yourself, and how you believe, if the guys are just wanting what they can get from you young ladies, maybe its not right for you.And you are special in your own right! You'll always fit in, maybe not with "the in-crowd", but if you have to lose any part of you to fit in, is it worth it?you're more important than the "in-crowd".Just wanted to give you my 2 cents worth, may not mean anything, but here it is anyway!

Answer 24

no it duz not mater but we will try to chang that :)

Answer 25

O_o, i have never done any of that stuff.. and im perfectly fine with how i am living.

Alcohol is a depressant, i don't need any more depression,

Don't rush into things, just be you.  If somebody likes "you", then that stuff shouldn't matter.

Answer 26

Yeah, I like good girls. I don't want to marry a w***e or anything...lmao. But I don't want a girl that is a prude. (Being a prude doesn't mean waiting until you're married. It means being stuck up, to me anyway.) I think it's great that a girl would wait until marriage, and I would respect that. To be completley honest, no, I did not wait until marriage. (Hence being fifteen with a daughter.) And my current girlfriend and I do have s*x. (Yes, we always use a condom AND she's on bc.)

No, it's not a turn off. To me, it's actually a turn ON.