Do hurt people really hurt people?

Question

what im saying is do people that have been abused(verbally,sexually etc.) take all of their anger out on other people

Answer 1

Some people do. It's really sad.

Answer 2

No,they can realise that when they are abused,what can they feel after abusing.In my views they never act on others.

Answer 3

whut do you mean ?

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Answer 4

My ex was depressed and constantly tried to make me that way. When he was having a low day he would be as negative as possible to bring me down to eye level with him. He never meant to, but couldn't stand hurting so much alone.  

Answer 5

Some do, but not all, I have depression, and I would never hurt anybody.  

Answer 6

Some do.

Answer 7

If you mean that when you mentally hurt someones feelings, do they hurt physically? If that's the case, then yes, many people are physically in pain over the grief or the anguish they feel. It may be from guilt if they were in the wrong, or it may be from pride because they have been injured by harsh words or even that "look" that some people can give to signify what they are doing is wrong according to someone else and their standards.  

Answer 8

"Misery loves company!"

Hurt people are in emotional pain.  In such a state, their judgement and sensitivity are impaired.  Mistakes are made, and said.  These mistakes are sometimes done unconsciously, sometimes on purpose.

Hurt people are usually angry, frustrated, and sad.  In some cases they will lash out for no good reason, other than they are "hurt".

Compassion is the order of the day for these unfortunate individuals.  Wouldn't you want understanding and forgiveness if you were in their shoes?

Answer 9

Sometimes yes, it's not happened to me but i've seen it happen to others. They see people hurting and sometimes it just brings them down. People who are hurting hurt others just so they don't feel alone while they themselves are hurting, it doesn't happen to everyone but everyones different and everyone thinks differently so yes it does happen, more then you would like to think too.

Answer 10

Yes they do. Hurt people hurt other people a lot because unconsciously they feel it will make them feel better but they only feel worse after. I think the people who hurt you are not strong enough to handle their situation or maybe they want attention.

Answer 11

im pretty sure its different for everyone u know cuz i dont wanna sound bad but im like a happy loved person... i think im loved a little too much by everyone and i always tend to hurt people that love me and i usually dont realize it. I also thunk hurt people might want to hurt others to feel better.

Answer 12

If they are emotionally immature, then yes.  It's a way of making them feel better about their own sadness.  It doesn't make a lot of sense, but they do without even really realizing it.  These kind of people need to put others down in order to feel some sort of power or control, which they may not have in their own life.  They want to keep you down at their level so they don't feel inferior to you.  This is a very childish way of acting.  People who are more mature mentally don't do that sort of thing.