My mother has been a very irresponsible person.. For most of my teenage years I've had to fight not to be like her.. After a long hard struggle, here I am. Life is wonderful and on May 30th 2009 i am supposed to marry my love.. Now I find out on Friday that my mother was arrested for grand larceny, 2 misdemeanors and a warrant she skipped on 8 years ago. She is out on bail but has 2 court dates in September. Today while on the phone as she is crying to me about how sorry she is, she asked me not to get married without her. Now I am no attorney but things do not look good for her. My best friend tells me that I should not put my life on hold for my mother and that if she has to do more than a year of time, I should not cancel the wedding.. but I can not imagine going forward without her being there.. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to explain to everyone who asks where my mother is. and I don't want to break her heart and have her miss her only daughter's wedding even if I don't agree with her lifestyle and what she has done. Deposits have all been sent out over $1,000 lost. What do I do?
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