Do i deserve this pain im feeling inside?

Question

ok well everyone makes mistakes... and i've done my share..

me and my boyfriend had decided to get back with eachother...and everything has been amazing! it has been like fantasy land hehe :)

of course tears here and there..opeing up to each other wondering why this happen etc. ok.. while we were off.. he was having mixed emoitions he say with this chick... lets just say he got close and they were on the edge to going out.. both had strong feelings towards each other, both drew cute pictures, all that lovie dobie stuff... well.. now he says he feels sorrie n i understand he would..he didint mean to hurt her . not even i knew we would b bak with eachother. so.. ive seen the pictures, drawings, god they r beautiful..romantic..sweet.. perfect for ur man to give to you things and im extreamly jealous! should i be? i mean.. do i deserve this..since i did do a mistake.. but then again im human n i learn frm them.. hes a very friendly kind warmhearted person so of course he's going to continue tlking to her and b sweet.. im jealous everytime knowing he is tlking to her.. knowing he still has feelings but he says its just feelings as friends.. but that impossible.. u shared something b4 with her... i need advice/help...

Answer 1

I'm in the same boat with you girl so I know how you feel.  However, you need to trust him.  As for trusting her, well.. that's a different story.  But if you show him that you're mature and can handle things like this, he will see it.  If it bothers you that much though, let him know.  If he truly wants to be with YOU, then he should realize that this is bringing on insecurities that will only fail the relationship.  I've learned to be patient and secure with myself and our relationship.  And only real love for the other person can stand the test of time and tests such as these.  Keep loving him.  He will see it. If not, then maybe he isn't the one you should be with.  Good luck.