Do i have a right to be mad at my mom?

Question

whenever i talk to her she will just..well..not respond so il be like "hello...answer my question" and then she will say something like "do you like that car over there?" or she will leave the room and come back and il be like where were you and then she will spaz saying "i was in the washroom!!!!!!!!!!!!". today i was talking about how i had to pick up a document from the library and she just left to the backyard because she saw a mouse. and i was like "im i leaa important than your dear grass?" she she said yes.

what should i do, do i have a right to be mad at her. also, i have a parrot and she blames everything on it....the dirty house, her seasonal allergies, althritis, and the mouse in the yard. p.s im 15

Answer 1

sound like your mom might have some emotional and mental problems.. i think talking to a doctor might help her out some.. get her diagnosed and mabe some meds to help her out but i dont think you should be mad at her bc i dont think its something she can control..

Answer 2

You didn't mention if your dad is in the picture so i'm going generic. Tell a trusted adult how she is acting.  She seems to have some emotional or mental issues that she should be dealing with.  She may already be handling them and not telling you but it doesn't sound like it.  It may be something simple as she's just stress or it could be a more simple problem.  But if you tell a trusted adult like a doctor or your school counselor about what is happening then maybe if there are no other family members near you they can help the two of you to overcome this obstacle.  I hope this helps you with your problem.  Oh and you can be mad at your mom and still love her.  Everyone's parents do things that they don't like or don't agree with.  My mom tries on everything in a store but buys nothing.  So we can never go clothes shopping together because I get so frustrated and mad at her.  But I know she's my mom and we love eachother. So it's normal specially at your age.

Answer 3

Are you sure she's not just going through PMS?

Answer 4

Religiously speaking, you have no right to be mad at your mom. I think I can say yes though (for now), you have the right to be mad at your mom. I say yes now cause she does that to you without explaining why she's doing it. Hey, I'm 15 too but my mom doesn't do that to me. I dunno maybe it's cause we're Filipino and we believe in God.

But anyways, she's probably doing that cause of stress. She might also be taking drugs too that's why she doesn't know what she's saying anymore. But it's most probably stress. Is she a workaholic? What I can say to you is this.

Just make yourself think that you don't have the right to be mad at her. In fact, you really do have no right to be mad at her. Just find time to sit down and talk to her. You know, have a heart to heart talk or somethin like that. If you can't and she's too busy or you just really can't do it, write her a letter. Tell her everything that you feel whenever she does that. Tell her EVERYTHING. Your deepest thoughts, what you wish she would and wouldn't do and say. Make the letter serious and most importantly, tell her that if she still loves you, she isn't supposed to make you feel awful about it even though she has her reasons.

And I CAN tell you that she has her reasons. If she wasn't like that before, then something is definitely bothering her. Hey, honestly speaking, I tend to be like that when I'm busy doing something or just thinking to myself and I don't want to be bothered.

Just do what I tell you and you'll be fine :)

Write the letter, okay? Good luck!

Answer 5

Sounds like your mom has flipped her lid.  lol!!!!  

Answer 6

Is it possible that she is not paying attention because you talk continously?  Now I'm not trying to insult you or anything here, but listen....

My Daughter is almost 12 and she blabs about anything and everything nonstop all day long.  I try to follow the conversation with her and lisen and respond etc.  But after a while when I keep hearing blah blah blah about ridiculous things for the 14th time today, I honestly start to tune it out a bit.  After a while I pick up something she said, then I might respond to something she said a few minutes ago and it won't make sense to her....

So maybe you are talking so much that she is just tuning you out?

Answer 7

Uh, seems like you and your mom are two peas from the pod.  Crazy as ever.  

Answer 8

Your mom is probably stressed out. You guys just need to sit down when she doesn't have anything else on her mind and have a heart to heart.