Do i have a right to get pissed about what my steploser does?

Question

i came home one day and tried to get onto my myspace and check my email (mom is ok with my having both of those) and it tells me that my myspace no longer exsists and neither does my email..i questioned my step loser (stepfather) and he told me he deleted it..i got pissed off called him an *** hole and ran to my room and slammed my door.... later that day my mom comes home and i tol her what my steploser did and she asked him about it and he said he would never so somethins so mean to me...and that he "cares" about me...bullshit...but then about 3 days later my game for the xbox goes missing once again i ask my steploser about it and he tells me he sold it to get a new part for his sons motorcycle...that is reeeeeaaaaallllly messed up.....so i have not spent a single night at my house in over a month and i have not said a single word to my step loser is that over reacting or is it perfectly justified??

Answer 1

Lock up your things. Put your computer in a lockable cabinet and secure all valuables. Don't make it obvious but try to catch him in the act. Try a voice recorder for instance.

Answer 2

it is kinda over reacting but tell your step mother that he is lying u r right that ia totally messed up and i can not believe it sorry that i can not help u but i fell ur pain ! i promise i feel ur pain!

Answer 3

Yes, you have the right, the man sounds like an A$$.

Someone who cares for you does not do the things you have described. Than god you seem to have somewhere else to stay. Stay there as long as you can!

Answer 4

I cant believe your mom didn't have a problem with your stepfather selling your stuff so he can buy things for his son...

Answer 5

Um, you're pretty justified.  This guy doesn't have the right to mess around with your life like this, and I'm wondering why your mother isn't standing up for you.

Losing your temper won't get you what you want though; as hard as it is, try staying calm.  Since he seems to be telling you one thing and your mom something else, try setting him up, like the next time you confront him, turn your stereo to record or something first, and then call him in the room and ask him.  

Don't gloat, or look smug and for God's sake don't tell him you're doing it.  Once it's all over, hide the fact from him.

Then, tell your mom what he said, and if she asks him and he says he didn't, have her listen to the tape privately.  Ask her to swear not to tell him you taped him, but to back you up.

The reason I don't want you to let him know, is he sounds messed up and I don't know if he might retaliate against you for doing it.

If your mom won't back you up even after all of this, is there a chance you can stay with your dad or other family member?  For that matter, maybe you should move in with another family member permanently anyway.  This doesn't sound like the best place for you right now.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Move if your Mom doesnt fix it.  

Answer 7

YES you are justifed...i say tape the next incident to show your mother what is really going on behind her back...good luck with the step-loser

Answer 8

Considering that he doing things without your permission (like selling your things for another purpose) it is justified. He would at least have asked if he "cared." Also going into the internet to delete personal information is not good.