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Do i have the right or do you think I am over reacting???

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I have a shiba Inu puppy who is about 8 months old. We have a big crate 4 him which we lock him in when we go out or at nite cause he chews everything he can get & will climb my dress & stuff 2 get things. My inlaws say this is wrong & mean 2 the dog. (he has gotten electrical wires while we were showing once so its more 4 his safety) If we have 2 go somewhere 4 a long time we take him 2 the inlaws to be watched. Well needless 2 say the other day he "bite" them 4 no reason. When we got there my hubby was told by his bro that his step father took the dog in the bedroom SLAPPED him & then chased him out of the room. The dog **** and pissed himself.His mom told me that she went to pick him up 2 go 2 bed (which they never did before) & he got aggressive (if he dose not want 2 be picked up he will fight 2 get away) She then went 2 punish him 4 it & got bite. To me it sounds like they abused my dog cause a friends daughter who is like 8 picks my dog up & forces him in a stroller (playful) he has never bite her once & he fights to get away. when we went 2 get the dog she argued that it was all because we crate him. Now our pets are spoiled we walk our dog they just let the dogs out on a lead unwatched. Plus their dog had p**p matted in her fur for over 3 days (they fed it table scraps, got the runs down her legs bad and did not bath her) I also found out that they have done lines of coke. His mom is also very dependent on beer. NOW i wont for sure let her babysit my son when he is born (he is due this december and is the first grandson in the family) she has stated that her drinking is not a problem & her kids turned out ok when a comment was made about drinking around our son. We dont want anyone drinking when watching our son, and she will drink. (she drives drunk to go get more beer and will drive people around when totally smashed and sees nothing wrong with it) Also after the abuse on the dog cause he never bites unless you attack him I am afraid they might harm my child whats to stop them from hitting my son when they hit my dog & MY SON WILL NEVER BE HIT. we dont believe in it and they tell us we are worng for that as well. (we believe in punishment but if you hit you teach your child hitting is ok) So after all that do you agree or disagree that they should not be alone with my child.....

we also wont let her drive with our child at anytime....

I also dont want her to hold my child unless she is sitting only cause I am afraid she will be to drunk and may drop my son or trip with him...

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  1. Being a parent you want the best for you baby.  The environment and people he grows up around will develop him into the person he is later in life.  It's quite obvious what the answer to your question is.  If grandma's an alcoholic and can't take care of her and your pets, then why the heck would you have her watch your baby?  If you have to come on yahoo answers and ask a dumb question like this, then my question is to you...are you ready for to raise a child?  Jesus, and use some proper grammar!


  2. Let me get one thing straight..I don't believe in crate training.I believe it to be selfish and mean (you try being locked up in the bathroom for hours!)

    But...

    you are doing it for the safety of your dog.One thing I would like to suggest is getting chew toys and bones so your dog has something to chew on instead of cables and such.

    It was WRONG of them to abuse your dog and your dog bit them because they abused him! why they cannot put two and two together is beyond me.

    I would allow the grandparents to see their grandchild but I wouldn't exactly let them babysit your kid knowing that she is a alcoholic.

    Good luck.

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