Do i have to loose weight?...and how much weight?

Question

we went to the beach awhile ago wz 2 of my roommates and a roommmate's boyfriend. while on the beach, i've seen someone who has the same nationality as his. so, just to break the ice, i joke "baba, maybe when u get old u'll get fat like him"...i didn't know, he got offended, and he told his gf, that i am very fat and i need to loose weight...that i should not eat etc...am i really that fat?

here are two pics we've taken awhile ago: i'm that chubby one...

http://photos-685.friendster.com/e1/photos/58/67/26407685/1_443267963l.jpg

http://photos-685.friendster.com/e1/photos/58/67/26407685/1_904241310l.jpg

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

no you do not have to lose weight. Who cares that guy thinks you are fat because you definitely are NOT. yes he might have been offended or something, so maybe you should have told him it was a joke, but that's ok since it was an accident - you didn't mean to hurt his feelings, so maybe he thought saying that you are "fat" as an insult back to make him feel better, when actually you are not.

also, no offense (and honestly) you guys look the same width so I can't really tell who is chubbier than the other.

don't let other peoples calling names make you feel bad or anything. just ignore them since you are definitely NOT fat.

if you want to lose weight though, just simply walk 30 minutes a day. it is a great exercise and it is good for your health to get some sunshine and vitamin D from the sun.

Answer 3

haha i cant really tell wich one is u bcuz UR NOT FAT. obviously that lowlife uptite guy cant take a joke, and was trying to look for an insult for you. haha he didnt really succeed....

Answer 4

he must have said the because he was hurt by what u said so he wanted to hit u where it hurt... every girls weakness is her weight... ur fine

Answer 5

He's stupid don't listen to him. You look fine. If you really want to lose weight, you could but you definitely don't NEED to. If you wanted to boost your confidence than I'd say just exercise a few times a week, but you don't need diet or starve yourself or whatever.

Answer 6

Um no, you're not fat, that guy is probably g*y, ignore him!

Answer 7

You may be a bit chubby, but chubby is cute. Your roommate & her bf do not even notice how she (roommate) is chubby. Love is blind.

Answer 8

If it makes you feel anybetter, I don't know which one is the fat one.  I still don't know.  So, if you want another girls opinion than no.  You are both beautiful

Answer 9

No your not that fat but put money aside for a face lift.

Answer 10

You are not fat at all! if you want to loose weight try crunches or sit ups!!

Ages:

15 and younger

200 a day

16 and older

250 a day

Hope i helped!!!